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How Do You Start A Conversation?
Topic Started: Sep 15 2004, 07:06 PM (462 Views)
Alisha
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How do you start a conversation with people you dont know? I just dont know wat to say to them. I honestly suck at starting a conversation with people I don't know. So, how do you start a conversation with someone you don't really know?
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I can't help you at this cause' if i don't know then its hard to start a conversation. Start with something you both like. I do that most of the times and it works.
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precious_girl
Sep 15 2004, 10:43 PM
I can't help you at this cause' if i don't know then its hard to start a conversation. Start with something you both like. I do that most of the times and it works.

lolz
but its someone i met for the first time..how would i know what the person likes.
I dont even know the first thing abt the person.
I mean...what would be the first thing i should say to the person..besides 'hi...how are you?'
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Ask wat he/she likes
You know i'm not good in this maybe someone else can help you
When I meet ppl for the first time, If they don't talk then i start talking abt the weather. Its a nice weather pleasant weather and this talk leads to other abt movies and stuff and then we get to know the other person and can talk abt anything.
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precious_girl
Sep 15 2004, 10:54 PM
Ask wat he/she likes
You know i'm not good in this maybe someone else can help you
When I meet ppl for the first time, If they don't talk then i start talking abt the weather. Its a nice weather pleasant weather and this talk leads to other abt movies and stuff and then we get to know the other person and can talk abt anything.

lolz
the weather...how boring.
I always start by making the person laugh Becuz laughter is the best cure.

Well...it isnt my problem...i just thought of it & ask.
Different people have different views on it so...i just wanted to know..how you guys thought.
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Amm i never start..so dunno :P
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I always thought weather is the boring thing to start a conversation. But i had this class our teacher told us if you wanna start a conversation with a client you should start talking abt weather. So with clients we have to talk abt something to make them feel comfortable.
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lolz..dimpz

but ionno..for me it kinda depends on the person...if i get a good vibe den ill just start talking but if not den ill wait
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lol..wlel i say hi how r u and then ask em laodz of q'z

if they dnt reply nicley i say brb..blok em and never cum bk :P

but i eman liek mishy sed, fi u get a gud vibe, then u cnt stop talkin to em..a dosti takes sum time naa :)
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yep..if its meant to be...it will happen..
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hmm i will ask his/her name :cheeky:
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lol..thats how u started talkin to me..or the other way round..and luk at us now :P
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Ok evry1 has different opinions. Actually i'll tell you what i'll do
ONLINE - Start with a name
REAL LIFE - Ask different questions and get to know them better
CLIENTS - Thats where i ask abt some things but if i can't find anything then talk abt weather. Our teacher told us thats the best way to make clients comfortable.
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WOW ^
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girl i'm exactly like u...i cant start conversations with people i don't know...and at the end i just end up feeling like i make people think i'm boring or something.....
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desi_rani
Sep 15 2004, 11:12 PM
girl i'm exactly like u...i cant start conversations with people i don't know...and at the end i just end up feeling like i make people think i'm boring or something.....

ha..i know exactly wot u mean
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well...i always start conversation to say HI....lol :P

not much in first meeting...ask about her/himself...studies...hobbies etc
that's all
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sayin hey an asking the person about wat their interests r
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precious_girl
Sep 15 2004, 11:28 PM
I always thought weather is the boring thing to start a conversation. But i had this class our teacher told us if you wanna start a conversation with a client you should start talking abt weather. So with clients we have to talk abt something to make them feel comfortable.

I didnt mean client...with client...it isnt so bad
You just ask them how they are & get to the point.

But i mean...friends new friends.
You got introduced for the first time by your other friends or something.
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Sep 15 2004, 11:58 PM
lol..wlel i say hi how r u and then ask em laodz of q'z

if they dnt reply nicley i say brb..blok em and never cum bk :P

but i eman liek mishy sed, fi u get a gud vibe, then u cnt stop talkin to em..a dosti takes sum time naa :)

lolz sonu
online is easy to avoid talking to them but i mean in person..face to face.
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desi_rani
Sep 16 2004, 02:12 AM
girl i'm exactly like u...i cant start conversations with people i don't know...and at the end i just end up feeling like i make people think i'm boring or something.....

yea i know wat u mean...sometimes i feel that way too...but i always try to crack some jokes in between...to ease the tension.
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Sep 16 2004, 03:44 AM
well...i always start conversation to say HI....lol :P

not much in first meeting...ask about her/himself...studies...hobbies etc
that's all

no doubt!
u r the most boring person on the planet.
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lol...but i was saying as a online

face to face...Umm....i can't be free so easily...u know what i mean
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Sep 16 2004, 09:30 PM
lol...but i was saying as a online

face to face...Umm....i can't be free so easily...u know what i mean

of course i know what u mean...it doesnt take a Genius to figure what you are saying
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that's why i said a simple meaning coz i know u are not Genius :P
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Sep 16 2004, 09:40 PM
that's why i said a simple meaning coz i know u are not Genius :P

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pehli baat to msn par nahin aate...aur aate bhi ho magar baat karne se sharmate ho...

chori aur sina jori
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u know msn prob
and can't u start a conversation if my message isn't getting u :rolleyes:
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Sep 16 2004, 01:07 PM
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Sep 15 2004, 11:58 PM
lol..wlel i say hi how r u and then ask em laodz of q'z

if they dnt reply nicley i say brb..blok em and never cum bk :P

but i eman liek mishy sed, fi u get  a gud vibe, then u cnt stop talkin to em..a dosti takes sum time naa :)

lolz sonu
online is easy to avoid talking to them but i mean in person..face to face.

wow..wel persoanlly my self i find easier face to face, unles the person dnt talk then i will say sumthiun like

'wow u dnt talk much' or sumthin ded sarcy
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Sep 16 2004, 10:22 PM
Alisha
Sep 16 2004, 01:07 PM
*~sizzling sonu~*
Sep 15 2004, 11:58 PM
lol..wlel i say hi how r u and then ask em laodz of q'z

if they dnt reply nicley i say brb..blok em and never cum bk :P

but i eman liek mishy sed, fi u get  a gud vibe, then u cnt stop talkin to em..a dosti takes sum time naa :)

lolz sonu
online is easy to avoid talking to them but i mean in person..face to face.

wow..wel persoanlly my self i find easier face to face, unles the person dnt talk then i will say sumthiun like

'wow u dnt talk much' or sumthin ded sarcy

lolz
well then it would be very interesting meeting you in person.

My problem is...i dont mind talking to the person..i got lots of topics to talk on but am scared if i asked the person some question maybe like 'you got a girl..?'
And he is like..its personal.
:huh:

its not like i care...just making conversation.

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"WHO THE F U C K ARE YOU?" - that works for me.... except less rude
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