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Topic Started: May 23 2004, 05:40 PM (90 Views)
Andy
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Recently things have been goin well,must be turning 18 that did it...Anyway this is a little story about how things went from bad to great basically...

Getting older is a terrible thing (god knows why...)
Day by day we get older & either none the wiser or even more intelligent as time goes on,but i've found recently people can be highly intelligent but have bigger fears that they let on.

Most of the fears are in relationships for some bizarre reason. I've found recently no matter who you date,or go out with (same thing...) you are likely to want different things in the relationship. With my first relationship,I wanted just someone to be with on a friday night or a saturday afternoon,but i got more which i was happy to get,but when that ended,I moved on,& found that the next relationship was basically built on nothing more than sex & secrecy.It was doomed from the start.

But now,getting older as time goes on,I find that there wasn't any point in a relationship where the person has a fear of commitment.Nearly everytime there was an opening to get out the relationship "Q" would escape,but found that it didn't pay off.Eventually it ended,i'm happy to say that i moved on right away.

- The difference or point you ask? Well its basically that the first relationship was more meaningful & now goin into the summer,i'm completly free (if anyone was single...) I'm happy to say my life from this day on has been great,i'm leading my life into a much better life,these past few years have been gloomy,& now the clouds have disappeared. I'm much happier as my life goes on...


Don't ask me what this has to do with anything
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Davie
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Yeah makes sense Andy. But one thing bud that kinda should be pointed out.

You said to me a few weeks ago "Q" had been in a few relationships you probably find "Q" was worried about getting hurt again, lots of people say yeah yeah to that kinda thing but if your in a relationship and have a nagging feeling at the back of your mind then your gonna find it hard to settle down with someone.

Just one of those things when a relationship breaks down. You can always say it was someones fault but you can't really blame just one person; but it depends on the circumstances again.

Good for you that you have moved on and are feeling better, just trying to point out that someone just doesn't want out of a relationship for any reaosn maybe they had some reason which they didn't want to say to you, me personally I find girls are just weird that way in how they tell you their feelings only when they want your attention.

Anyway bottom line is people just don't want out of relationships for just any old reason, must have been some reason for her to constantly say she wanted time etc.
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Andy
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yeah,the reason that people would want time to themselves would be 2 get away from the person instead of talking through their problems.

Every rship has problems,but theres no reason for ppl to not sort them out.

The way i see it right now was that the relationship i had wasn't even worth being in because since one person didn't love the other then it wasn't goin to work out from the start.

but it doesn't matter now as i'm completley over it because the way i see it,it didn't mean anything to the person so why cry or obsess over it?!


From now on i'm stronger now than ever before.I think people change over the course of a relationship.They start being happy & by the end everything goes sour.

People can't change who they are,they can't change their past,& if i'm with someone i dont want them to change,i would love them just the way they are & the person who i'm with should feel the same


People should be accepted the way they are,but they aren't & that's why society sucks!!
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