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When the missus, or girlfiend asks her man; why do you love me .....?
Topic Started: Apr 29 2008, 11:39 AM (1,715 Views)
captain_proton_au
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Dandandat
May 6 2008, 12:22 PM

What happens when I dont want my girl to think of me as her dad, that gives me the hebby gebbyes.

Certain issues pop up with the girls, that dont pop up in the guys cos their moms dont stay 19 as they are growing up ;)


Girls and their Dad issues - Oy Vey!
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captain_proton_au
May 6 2008, 02:16 PM
When it comes to humans and sexuality nothing is what it seems


Other examples:


Cleavage - is it about showing boobs, or showing a body part reminisant of the backside which is going to get guys more worked up, if that isnt the case, why is it usually that V shape?

The hot girl who walks around with not much clothes - is it about attracting male attention, or seperating the guys that stare at the body with the guys still in control enough to look into her eyes

The perfect kiss - the side the part is on is usually the side her dad used to brush her hair back over her ear when she was a kid. So stand still look into her eyes, call her by a name her dad might have called her like 'Sweetie' or 'honey', brush your thumb across her cheek like dad used to do to wipe away a tear, hold her with both your hands on her neck and then kiss

Tiger eyes - the excess eye shadow around the eyes, says to guys I'm more primal

The customary kiss on the cheek - politeness or "here, get a whiff of these pheremones"?

Holding hands - pay attention to when she reaches for your hand, is there a competitor around?

Where do you come up with this stuff???? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
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Minuet
May 6 2008, 12:34 PM

Where do you come up with this stuff???? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

A lot of time on my hands I suppose


Which is not really true, but oh well
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Hoss
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Does your inflatable friend display those characteristics?
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captain_proton_au
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^^^

I'd ask her but she doesnt talk ;)
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Dandandat
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captain_proton_au
May 6 2008, 07:44 PM
^^^

I'd ask her but she doesnt talk ;)

Then you need to spend a little more and get the upgraded model.
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captain_proton_au
May 7 2008, 03:55 AM
You've never wondered why the full hijab covers everything but the eyes?

Could be about covering up naughty bits, or could be about concentrating on the eyes

I have actually asked about that - muslim ladies are modest and hide their attributes from non-familiar men.

Unless they are westernised that is .... where they advertise their assets , then wonder why many men look at their assets rather than their eyes when looking at them or talking with them .... I wonder why that is ??? :evil1:
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Apr 29 2008, 12:56 PM
Dandandat
Apr 29 2008, 12:31 PM
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Apr 29 2008, 01:16 PM
somerled
Apr 29 2008, 05:39 PM
Unfair .... more often than not , it's not something specific , unless the relationship is just physical .

When ever my wife asks me .... my eyes roll and , inevitably she gets upset because I am not interested in playing her game.

So lads , what do you do in this situation , or do you give the answer you think she wants to hear ...  :rolleyes:

I know .... hardly a romantic bone in my body ....

Why do you think its unfair?

Maybe she just wants a bit of reassurance? To know that you care about her. :)

See that's what gets me. She should "know" I care about her and shouldn't need reassurance of that fact. Most everything I do from the moment I get up and to the moment I go to bed (and even while I'm sleeping) is for her or the kids, there is very little in this world I do just for my self. So then why the need for reassurance?

In fact speaking analytical it's a bit offensive if you think about it. By needing reassurance in this manner is in effect saying everything else done is simply not good enough. But since when are words better then actions? And why am I worrying about actions when its simply words that are of interest?

I don't think that with respect to romance people are going to analyze their relationship like a stock broker. I think that they need more than what you are saying. Something special and above and beyond normal maintenance that says that she is worth all this and more.

Also, some people seem to need this displayed visually as in presents, flowers, you dressing nice for her, love notes, or whatever; some need it told to then auditorily with spoken "I love you"s, music, good conversation, whatever; and some people need to be told with touching like hand-holding, caressing, snuggling. I, for some reason, fall into the third category, but I believe that my wife falls into the second category. I have studied this theory and come to believe that it has merit and is at least applicable to my relationship.

So, find a way to romance your mate from time-to-time above and beyond just being a good partner and it'll probably be worth it. My $0.02.

I agree with this.
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A number of posts have been deleted regarding one issue. There are to be no derogatory comments against the opposite sex in the two "gender-specific" forums. There was never any intention of providing that opportunity with the creation of said forums.
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^^^^

I don't blame you for removing them, even if one was mine. It could have escalated quickly.

:hail:
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May 7 2008, 12:34 PM
Moderator Comment

A number of posts have been deleted regarding one issue. There are to be no derogatory comments against the opposite sex in the two "gender-specific" forums. There was never any intention of providing that opportunity with the creation of said forums.

Thank you.
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When my significant other asks why I love her in that fishing for compliments tone of voice, I usually just say,'You know what? That's an excellent question. Let's see what the old Wikipedia has to say about it.'
I'm also fond of 'I... I... you know what? I never thought about it before. Maybe I don't. Maybe we don't belong together. I'd best examine this, and whilst I'm examining, perhaps it would be best if you moved back in with your mother.'

I don't play the fishing for compliments game. I've said 'I love you' and explained it on any number of occasions. Forcing me to say it on cue takes away any and all meaning.
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May 7 2008, 01:36 PM
When my significant other asks why I love her in that fishing for compliments tone of voice, I usually just say,'You know what? That's an excellent question. Let's see what the old Wikipedia has to say about it.'
I'm also fond of 'I... I... you know what? I never thought about it before. Maybe I don't. Maybe we don't belong together. I'd best examine this, and whilst I'm examining, perhaps it would be best if you moved back in with your mother.'

I don't play the fishing for compliments game. I've said 'I love you' and explained it on any number of occasions. Forcing me to say it on cue takes away any and all meaning.




:o ;) :lol: Tactically ingenious, Slick.



















Till she leaves in a taxi........ :scared:



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UncleSlickhead
May 7 2008, 05:36 PM
When my significant other asks why I love her in that fishing for compliments tone of voice, I usually just say,'You know what? That's an excellent question. Let's see what the old Wikipedia has to say about it.'
I'm also fond of 'I... I... you know what? I never thought about it before. Maybe I don't. Maybe we don't belong together. I'd best examine this, and whilst I'm examining, perhaps it would be best if you moved back in with your mother.'

I don't play the fishing for compliments game. I've said 'I love you' and explained it on any number of occasions. Forcing me to say it on cue takes away any and all meaning.

Preach on Brother
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