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Ex BF Update
Topic Started: Sep 26 2007, 03:04 PM (487 Views)
~Luthien~
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Bug
Sep 28 2007, 03:33 PM
rowskid86
Sep 27 2007, 02:17 PM
somerled
Sep 27 2007, 04:20 AM
You really need to move on.

agreed.

Have either of you read what I've been saying?

I mean no offence but by making another thread about him makes it look to us like youre NOT over him.
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Bug
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~Luthien~
Sep 28 2007, 04:44 PM
Bug
Sep 28 2007, 03:33 PM
rowskid86
Sep 27 2007, 02:17 PM
somerled
Sep 27 2007, 04:20 AM
You really need to move on.

agreed.

Have either of you read what I've been saying?

I mean no offence but by making another thread about him makes it look to us like youre NOT over him.

I guess I can understand that,

but whether or not yunz would like to believe this one is up to you. What I am stating is the truth, and I am prepared to swear it if I have to.
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Spanky
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I realize how long it takes to get over someone depends on the person who is going through it.

But from my perspective it's really taking a long time and continually making threads about it is getting a bit annoying if you ask me.

Just giving my opinion here. :)
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Intrepid2002
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UNGH!
For some people, it takes longer. Getting over someone isn't easy. Especially if you've invested so much of yourself into the relationship. Personally, I don't ever want to feel that vulnerable again.

Heck, sometimes many, many years later, I think I'm over the hump and all it takes is a familiar aftershave or cologne to pull me back into that slump. Thank goodness for friends, friends and friends who are willing to help you out of that slump who will take you out, introduce you to more people, go shopping with you and just plain get you to that point where it doesn't sting as much, anymore. Just want you to know it never goes away completely.

Is there an option for you to study abroad for a semester? A semester in Europe wouldn't be a bad thing.

You got to get back into the game Bug. Get out there and do your thing.

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Bug
Supernatural = Hotnatural
You guys STILL don't get it, do you?

Yes, I know threads are annoying, which is why I have only been talking with individuals personally about things, but that was earlier. WAY earlier.

I AM NOT SOME FREAKIN NUTCASE!

I've been wisening up lately.

Can you just accept that is humanly possible?

No, I do not want to leave where I am.

I'm not a runner.

If I was I would have left years ago when this began.

I'm NOT a quitter, and I do not intend to whine.

Haven't yunz ever heard of frustrations?

Just having to get something out but don't know how to do it in the spoken word, only written form?

I read posts sometimes that I could deem as 'whining' as well, and I never saw anyone else complaining about them.

Just mine.

So thanks...thanks for doubt.

People who know me have said that I have changed, and you know what, that's TRUE AS WELL.

So excuse me for expressing something for one last time.

Perhaps I'll never express anything about anything again.

My hope was for yunz to see that, but obviously not.

Open up those eyes to see the bigger picture.

Do you want me to continue making depressing threads about my past life?

Because I don't see people jumping to give advice in the future.

Feeling like crap all the time because of something I know I cannot change?

There's more to life than that.
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~Luthien~
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Bug
Sep 29 2007, 03:46 PM
You guys STILL don't get it, do you?

Yes, I know threads are annoying, which is why I have only been talking with individuals personally about things, but that was earlier. WAY earlier.

I AM NOT SOME FREAKIN NUTCASE!

I've been wisening up lately.

Can you just accept that is humanly possible?

No, I do not want to leave where I am.

I'm not a runner.

If I was I would have left years ago when this began.

I'm NOT a quitter, and I do not intend to whine.

Haven't yunz ever heard of frustrations?

Just having to get something out but don't know how to do it in the spoken word, only written form?

I read posts sometimes that I could deem as 'whining' as well, and I never saw anyone else complaining about them.

Just mine.

So thanks...thanks for doubt.

People who know me have said that I have changed, and you know what, that's TRUE AS WELL.

So excuse me for expressing something for one last time.

Perhaps I'll never express anything about anything again.

My hope was for yunz to see that, but obviously not.

Open up those eyes to see the bigger picture.

Do you want me to continue making depressing threads about my past life?

Because I don't see people jumping to give advice in the future.

Feeling like crap all the time because of something I know I cannot change?

There's more to life than that.

Yes, I know threads are annoying, which is why I have only been talking with individuals personally about things, but that was earlier. WAY earlier.
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Then may I ask why these threads keep showing up?

Also we HAVE given you advice over the future and if you read Intrepid' s post just now you can see that she is giving you advice about the future.
The annoyance for me personally is not that you talk about him all the time or come here to vent, the annoying thing for me is that you keep on making separate threads about it.
Just make one thread and post it all in there, sort of like an online diary so to speak.
I have one running on Sistertrek as well, though i havent posted in it for ages.

And also i guess its pretty hard for me to comprehend how you can keep on going about your ex while you only dated him 2 months. My ex verbally abused me for a year and all I want is to forget it and move on and it worked! So i guess i cant really understand that one sorry.

On another note; he is getting married??!! Seriously talk about having no priorities at all. Spanky and I are dating for 8 months now, we havent even talked about getting engaged yet!
Is it just me or does everything go faster in the US?
Plus him getting married so soon and so rapidly just shows what a loser he truly is. We all understand you want someone to love and be loved by, ive wanted it so badly for years but right now you need to focus on other things in your love than boyfriends and love, only that way will the right one come onto your path.
Last year i already accepted the fact I was never gonna get married and focused on a future with my animals and work and friends and look who showed up 3 months later.
It comes when you least expect it trust me i know.

But please from now one make one thread about the bastard and just vent in that one whenever you feel like it, it keeps from spamming the boards and it creates more space on the boards. And yes i AM willing to post and comment in that one.
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Intrepid2002
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UNGH!
sorry about that bug...

I can honestly say that some of us were just trying to help based on our own past experiences truly hoping for the best for you.

Please don't interpret our good intentions other than what they truly are. All of us care for you and I guess from what I've read in your post, I think what we really need to do is just let you vent and give you your space. We get it.

I apologize.
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