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| Tweet Topic Started: Aug 23 2007, 03:04 PM (536 Views) | |
| Deleted User | Aug 23 2007, 03:04 PM Post #1 |
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I need some advice. I need to know what signs a woman would give a man if she likes him. How would you go about it? What kind of things would you do? Y'see there is this girl, and we have a bit of history together, but lately she has been doing odd things, like hitting me, poking me and wanting to go places withme, even staying up late to chat. Am I reading too much into things? Being a bloke i'm not very good at subtle hints... |
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| rowskid86 | Aug 23 2007, 03:59 PM Post #2 |
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I think she's just trying to get close to you and then eat your soul. :lol: Joking aside. I too am not good at reading women. |
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| STC | Aug 23 2007, 06:10 PM Post #3 |
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Aaaaah Mike I'm the worst at this :lol: Having said that... :rolleyes: Sounds like she is very comfortable with you, that's a good start. Just tell her how you feel A big risk, I know. You worry that, if she says no, you'll lose her friendship, which you clearly treasure. Better than spending your life alone though. Go for it ![]() P.S. If she's really your friend, the earlier risk won't matter so much. |
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| captain_proton_au | Aug 23 2007, 08:57 PM Post #4 |
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Are you really in to her as much as you think you are though? Cos if you were, you might find you wouldnt have to ask us this question |
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| Franko | Aug 23 2007, 11:34 PM Post #5 |
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This is a good point, but such a situation can be a little more complicated when you've had a "long term" (non-physical ?) relationship with such a girl. It might be time for "total honesty between you two", Mike. Maybe it's time for that unexpected out of nowhere "kiss on the lips". She can hardly blame you for having those kind of feelings. That might be the only way to solve this at this point. Quit trying to discern her feelings through conversation and casual gestures. She either wants your arms around her or not. If you get the "I just want to be friends" trip from her after that, then fine. No need to show that you are upset or annoyed. Just laugh it off. Time to roll the dice, my friend. Remember, there's lots of nice babes out there that would like getting cozy with the Welstermelon. |
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| Deleted User | Aug 24 2007, 01:26 AM Post #6 |
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Well we've been friends for a few years, and she has in the past admitted some feelings for me, but that was a few months ago. She already knows how I feel about her. I'll see how it goes. Hopefully i'll sort it with as little embarassment as possible! :lol: |
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| Dandandat | Aug 24 2007, 01:57 AM Post #7 |
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If you find her nak-id in your room with only your favorite tea-cozy on, then its either Wednesday or she likes you. |
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| HistoryDude | Aug 24 2007, 09:47 AM Post #8 |
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^^^ That'll stick all day! :lol:So, Welsby, how's all the advice from men going, so far?! :lol: Attention, Ladies: This man needs some help! |
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| Minuet | Aug 24 2007, 10:10 AM Post #9 |
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Mikey - are we talking about a particular person who you should stay away from? Or is this a different person altogether. My advice hinges on your response. |
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| Deleted User | Aug 24 2007, 12:53 PM Post #10 |
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No, we're not talking about her! :lol: Someone completley different this time! :lol: |
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| Minuet | Aug 24 2007, 01:06 PM Post #11 |
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Then take the advice of the guys. Go for it. Assuming of course that you like the girl. If not then do what you can not to hurt her. |
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| somerled | Aug 24 2007, 01:55 PM Post #12 |
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These days she'll probably ask you if you want to go out with her. In the 1970s and 1980s when I was dating , a sure sign was her wanting to monopolise you at social settings , and her body language was a give away, and if she really really liked you , she will give off pharomones when she is around you , and you'll know ! And not saying no when you asked for "this dance" is a good indication. Being interested in what you say , and what you do , and wanting to share these things and aspects of what is you is a biggy. From you description it sounds promising , so ask her out and see what she says. |
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| LoriCiani | Aug 24 2007, 04:26 PM Post #13 |
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Oooh, I get dejavu here. It started with a simple offer of a cup of coffee, then we were friends. We'd spend lots of time together. Then we would play fight, tickle untill breathless with laughter but would always stop at the face to face bit. That hesitant moment on the brink, the edge of the cliff that all lovers dive off into love. That was untill someone got fed up and said, "For gods sake KISS HER!" He did. We've been married for 20 years now. |
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| 8247 | Aug 24 2007, 04:56 PM Post #14 |
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Here's how to handle a rejection if it happens... A couple weks ago, I thought a cashier was flirting with me. I kept going to the store, and she would seem to be flirting and hinting that she's like to go out with me. One day, I asked her if she'd like to go out for dinner. She replied that she wa taken, but thought I was really cool anyway. I gave her a puzzled look, and said "You misunderstood me. I wasn't asking you out. I am conducting a random survey on people and how much they like to go out for dinner. Now, I'll try again. How much do you like to go out for dinner?" She laughed hard, and said "That's a good one. Nicely done." And, although rejected, I handled it with class, and I still go into the store. She'll ask me how the survey's going. :lol: |
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| captain_proton_au | Aug 24 2007, 05:51 PM Post #15 |
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^^^^ That is a good one, I might borrow it
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