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Any Thoughts?
Topic Started: Jul 12 2007, 05:39 PM (246 Views)
Bug
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So as you know I am spending my summer here at college on the summer work program. I think I also have mentioned that my ex is working here as well (which, btw, someone laughed at me for calling him that but that's what he is :news: ).

Anyway...

...for the first half of the summer I worked in the Media Department which was no where NEAR where he worked, but since transferring departments to Maintenance I now know when he works, where he works, knows who he works with and so on and so forth. And this thought entered my mind - it has been over a year since the breakup and yadda yadda yadda...is this some sort of sign or something that I should try to be civil again? I see him now at least once or twice a week and my initial reaction is :scared: :ugh: :doh: (He did say 'hi' to me when I was getting ready to clock in again for work after lunch...and man did that just feel uncomfortable even though I had hoped it wouldn't).

But then I thought - I was totally miserable back then, and I'm sure you of all people here knew that...so maybe this is just a chance for me to dig deeper into myself and figure out what I truly feel instead of just trying to start up fully being friends with him again...because in all honesty, I don't think I'm ready for that.

Thoughts? Opinions? Questions? etc...? would be muchly appreciated.
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captain_proton_au
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Bug
Jul 12 2007, 04:39 PM
I now know when he works, where he works, knows who he works with and so on and so forth.

Bug...Honey, time to let it go, its all starting to sound not healthy, especially that part
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captain_proton_au
Jul 12 2007, 10:01 PM
Bug
Jul 12 2007, 04:39 PM
I now know when he works, where he works, knows who he works with and so on and so forth.

Bug...Honey, time to let it go, its all starting to sound not healthy, especially that part

I didn't know, and I didn't really care, and I didn't expect that to start getting into my thought process until recently. :headscratch:
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It's just an old redundant thought path, pay no heed and don't go there. Just go on as normal. Sooner or later a state of comfort will return. :yes:
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LoriCiani
Jul 24 2007, 07:52 PM
It's just an old redundant thought path, pay no heed and don't go there. Just go on as normal. Sooner or later a state of comfort will return. :yes:

You know, I'd completely forgotten about this thread unti I saw that you'd posted in it. :lol:

But that's okay. I actually haven't thought about stuff like that in almost a month. Sure his name is brought up every once in a while from guys who live in the dorm with him this summer. For like, five seconds my mind goes: "Oh...Nathan..." and five seconds later it's forgotten.

:)
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Intrepid2002
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Re-establishing contact with him in any way, shape or form isn't good right now.

But that's just my opinion. Spend some of that energy fretting over Nathan "expanding your horizons" and meeting new guys. It's one of the great perks of being young and single, even old and single.... but single nonetheless.

I digress.

Don't think about him too much Bug.
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Intrepid2002
Jul 25 2007, 12:13 PM
Re-establishing contact with him in any way, shape or form isn't good right now.

But that's just my opinion. Spend some of that energy fretting over Nathan "expanding your horizons" and meeting new guys. It's one of the great perks of being young and single, even old and single.... but single nonetheless.

I digress.

Don't think about him too much Bug.

^^Read my previous post ;) :)
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