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Dating: A Lost Art; Tell us about your date from heck.
Topic Started: Jun 27 2007, 07:44 AM (798 Views)
Intrepid2002
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UNGH!


Yes. That must of been a very uncomfortable date.... but 25?
Nothing wrong with dating a 25 year old but I think my beef would be that a 51 year old would still want to date a 25 year old.... and a 61 year old too. B} What about us poor old ladies in our 30's ready to be tossed to the curb?

:drama:

Oh well, she got what she deserved. No need to be rude like that to anybody.

There's a lot to be learned from dating older men ladies. Just make sure they aren't married.
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8247
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somerled
Jun 28 2007, 04:57 AM
8247
Jun 28 2007, 03:05 PM
I'm sure I've had some bad dates, but none come to mind right now. However, this date is funny. I was 19, and had broken up with this clingy, co-dependant girl. She kept calling me, begging me to get back together with her. I kept saying no. One day about 2 weeks after I broke up with this girl, I got a phone call from one of her friends, saying that she thought I was cool, and wanted to go out with me. I picked her up, and we went to a restaurant, and all she did was talk about how great of a girl my ex was. It didnt take long to figure out what was going on. It was a setup by the 2 of them to try to get the friend to talk me into taking the ex back. Once I figured that out, I started moving in on the friend. Every time she would mention the ex, I would put my arm around her, and tell her that I didn't want to talk about the ex. I wanted to talk about the two of us. She would change the subject for a little while, and then go back to talking about the ex. Finally, I started putting my hands on her, and getting frisky. She finally asked me to take her home, which I did. I never heard from either of them again. Talk about a sneaky plan backfiring on those two.  :lol:

That might have back fired onto you too , being an octapus and all.

What if she had accused you of assault or attempted rape ? It might have been hard to talk your way out of serious charges with the local police.

Really need to be careful in that kind situation especially if you dio not know the girl or lady very well.

I didnt try to touch any goodie areas. I stopped short of them.
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8247
Jul 2 2007, 09:42 PM
somerled
Jun 28 2007, 04:57 AM
8247
Jun 28 2007, 03:05 PM
I'm sure I've had some bad dates, but none come to mind right now. However, this date is funny. I was 19, and had broken up with this clingy, co-dependant girl. She kept calling me, begging me to get back together with her. I kept saying no. One day about 2 weeks after I broke up with this girl, I got a phone call from one of her friends, saying that she thought I was cool, and wanted to go out with me. I picked her up, and we went to a restaurant, and all she did was talk about how great of a girl my ex was. It didnt take long to figure out what was going on. It was a setup by the 2 of them to try to get the friend to talk me into taking the ex back. Once I figured that out, I started moving in on the friend. Every time she would mention the ex, I would put my arm around her, and tell her that I didn't want to talk about the ex. I wanted to talk about the two of us. She would change the subject for a little while, and then go back to talking about the ex. Finally, I started putting my hands on her, and getting frisky. She finally asked me to take her home, which I did. I never heard from either of them again. Talk about a sneaky plan backfiring on those two.  :lol:

That might have back fired onto you too , being an octapus and all.

What if she had accused you of assault or attempted rape ? It might have been hard to talk your way out of serious charges with the local police.

Really need to be careful in that kind situation especially if you dio not know the girl or lady very well.

I didnt try to touch any goodie areas. I stopped short of them.

^^^

It sounds like 8247 DID know her, so it wouldn't have been a stranger. As for attempted rape, I don't see that he came near it.

Me, I would have been instantly suspicious, as something similar happened to me in high school.
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Admiralbill_gomec
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Intrepid2002
Jul 2 2007, 08:05 PM
Yes. That must of been a very uncomfortable date.... but 25?
Nothing wrong with dating a 25 year old but I think my beef would be that a 51 year old would still want to date a 25 year old.... and a 61 year old too. B} What about us poor old ladies in our 30's ready to be tossed to the curb?

:drama:

Oh well, she got what she deserved. No need to be rude like that to anybody.

There's a lot to be learned from dating older men ladies. Just make sure they aren't married.

My current wife is in her mid-thirties. I'm 47.

There isn't too much age difference between the Russian brat and my wife now. The problem with the brat was that she just wasn't very mature, and while she was superficially attractive, beauty was definitely skin-deep. Then there were those teeth.

Another 25 year old would have put up with that behavior, and probably have been under her thumb in an instant if he had the right car and credit rating. I was a bit older, and not happy at divorcing, and I didn't tolerate that kind of behavior (having seen enough of it in crews over the years).

Nothing against older women, but I just didn't date them often.

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HistoryDude
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Shaken, not stirred...
My wife and I went on a date over the weekend. We went to the grocery store! Is that artful?! :P :lol:
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Intrepid2002
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UNGH!
^^^

Who did you leave the kids with? :lol:
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Spanky
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Jun 28 2007, 05:04 PM
never had a real date :lol:
Sparky came to visit my birthday and voila :rotfl: so i wouldnt know.

Only saw this just now. :blush:

But yeah same here; tho I felt quite nervous at first since I got to meet the whole family at once. :rotfl:
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HistoryDude
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Intrepid2002
Jul 3 2007, 08:20 AM
^^^

Who did you leave the kids with? :lol:

We left the little kids with the older kids! ;) It's nice. We get to go on a date about twice a month, or so. Usually shopping for things we need and a bite to eat. Last week, our date was registering for the baby. :D
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Admiralbill_gomec
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Jul 3 2007, 11:45 AM
Intrepid2002
Jul 3 2007, 08:20 AM
^^^

Who did you leave the kids with?    :lol:

We left the little kids with the older kids! ;) It's nice. We get to go on a date about twice a month, or so. Usually shopping for things we need and a bite to eat. Last week, our date was registering for the baby. :D

That's nice :)

Tonight my wife and I are gong into Houston to visit a little wine bar she found.
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^^^ Yes, it is good to have teen kids, especially girls that like to babysit. Tonight's date is the circus - really. The one coming into town, not that one at our house. Though we're not leaving the little kids at home, this time! Okay, so maybe that's not a date! :lol:
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somerled
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Been married for 25 years , so it's been that long since I dated other women , I am at the age now that I really couldn't be bothered with that kind of bull (iif I were suddenly single again). Though I guess if I were I would look up some old ex-girl friends who I know are devorced or widowed (one of the recently lost her husband in a car accident) , or start frequenting the ball room dance or latin dance clubs which is where the ladies are now - even if I am pretty rusty at that stuff now.
Or maybe the girl who grew up next door .... she's divorced and I've always been fond of her , but thought of her more like a sister than anything else until she turned 17 and blossomed.
Or no doubt my younger sisters might try some match making too.

My wife says I haven't a romantic bone in my body . But I won her over , and must have had something .
I'd rather have a nice family baked dinner at home than take her to an crowded , noisey and over priced restraunt for fancy food that I can do just as well myself at home if I decided I want to.

None the less she has gotten it into her head this year that she wants to do something special on her birthday (her 50th) , and since I've already indicated I'm not the least bit interested in doing anything special on my 50th (which is two weeks before her's) it will be to celebrate our joint 50th's.
So I have agreed and will tag along and make the best of it, and try not to spend a lot of money ... I think it will be BYOG and BYO food or at a local club where everyone pays their own way.
Does that count as a date ?
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HistoryDude
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^^^ No! I've been told that if you gripe about the money, it's not a date! :lol:
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Jul 4 2007, 06:16 AM
^^^ No! I've been told that if you gripe about the money, it's not a date! :lol:

Just relucant to waste it....
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