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| Bug | May 8 2007, 05:27 PM Post #1 |
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Supernatural = Hotnatural
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So as of yesterday it has been officially a year since my breakup with my ex. As many of you know it has been a rough ride for me in many ways, but I just wanted to say thanks to all those who were patient enough to let me hash out my frustrations. I was undergoing some major relationship and spiritual torments (I suppose you could call it that), and let's just say that I am not the same Bug I was when I first joined Sistertrek. Back then I was this timid, jumpy, easily freaked out teenager who didn't see her life going anywhere. I still have a little bit of that left in me to a certain extent, but I'm happier with myself than I have been in a very long time. I always found comfort coming on here and knowing that there are people here who want to talk with me and care about me when it felt like no one else in the 'real world' would. I have found some best friends I never thought I have but Trekkies are forever, right? :lol: Yes, Nathan and I are still going to the same college. Yes, Nathan and I are working on campus together, which I did not find out about until last week, but I REFUSE to turn down my plans after I turned down an internship to work here and get more experience. Yes, things are still weird, but I am not as angry as I once was. Grace. So thanks so much yunz guys.
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| rowskid86 | May 8 2007, 07:36 PM Post #2 |
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I never know the dates when I break up with people. my last relationship I think we broke up in February, march or april. I'm not quite sure. It's odd that you remember the exact days. and if things get weird with you working with him, just kick him in the crotch, that why you'll get a laugh :rofl: |
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| Bug | May 8 2007, 07:47 PM Post #3 |
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Girls tend to remember that type of thing I guess. I dunno why. Probably because it was during finals week, but...whatever. :lol:I'm not mad about it anymore though, that's for sure. |
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| 24thcenstfan | May 8 2007, 07:53 PM Post #4 |
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OMG! ![]() I’ve been laughing for the last five minutes at that answer. Even more funny that a guy would recommend it. |
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| Bug | May 8 2007, 07:57 PM Post #5 |
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I personally would never even dream of doing such a thing. But I'm glad you found some humor in it.
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| 24thcenstfan | May 8 2007, 08:00 PM Post #6 |
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I find humor in the strangest things. I wouldn't recommend you actually do it though. If he bothers you, just walk away from him. |
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| Bug | May 8 2007, 08:16 PM Post #7 |
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:lol: That's what I do now. Trust me, my family is known for weird humor. |
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| captain_proton_au | May 8 2007, 09:35 PM Post #8 |
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I'm thinking the first step should be to erase that date from your memory |
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| Bug | May 8 2007, 09:44 PM Post #9 |
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I had already somewhat forgotten it until I started wondering why this end of the year felt so different from last year. Then I remembered what it was. Stupid me, huh? :lol: But it's cool. |
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| ~Luthien~ | May 9 2007, 10:17 AM Post #10 |
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I voted; why'd you make it a poll? Its over and done, let it go. Its been about 1,5 yrs since I lost my ex and we had a relationship for a year. I moped for a month or so, was depressed and then i got over it. Simple. We werent meant for each other. just as you and youre ex arent meant for each other. So get over it |
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| Minuet | May 9 2007, 10:28 AM Post #11 |
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Bug probably clicked New Poll instead of New Topic by accident |
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| 24thcenstfan | May 9 2007, 10:38 AM Post #12 |
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Something Wicked This Fae Comes
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Bug has always had browser problems that prevent her from creating threads at this site unless she does so by going through the New Poll function. As far as Bug getting over it. I would think you personally could understand how getting over *it* isn’t all that easy. Emotional healing is a different process for everyone. |
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| Spanky | May 9 2007, 10:53 AM Post #13 |
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Well I don't mean any disrespect towards Bug, but a year is a long time to get over a person with whom you had a relationship for only a month. |
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| ~Luthien~ | May 9 2007, 11:13 AM Post #14 |
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ah okey in that case I apologise. And yes I do understand how hard it is to get over such things because in my case i didnt only loose my ex, i lost all my friends, however what good does it do one person to keep rethinking about it and keep bringing it up? It wont help you it wont help your ex either. Love will come to you when the time is right. I can understand that you need to vent from time to time but its been a year now and her relationship lasted 2 months. My relationship lasted over a year and i aint bringing it up anymore. However not everyone is the same so I will stay out of this one. |
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| Minuet | May 9 2007, 11:23 AM Post #15 |
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Her relationship lasted much longer then a month. And like Luthien she has had strained relationships with other friends since the breakup. Anyhow she was only marking a date and stating how much she has grown in the last year. I don't see her crying over him still. She did for a long time - but in this thread seems to be moving on and stating the positive things in her life. Good for you Bug! |
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So thanks so much yunz guys.
Probably because it was during finals week, but...whatever. :lol:



7:58 PM Jul 10