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Topic Started: Apr 18 2007, 01:03 PM (1,891 Views)
Sam The Smuggler
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rowskid86
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Mel
Apr 18 2007, 05:45 PM
Rowskid,

You're not helping one bit. :rolleyes:

I didn't intend it to sound the way it did. one of those sounded better in my head type thing.

Can I have a take 2?

People are going to argue, thats just how some of us are. there isn't much you can do luth about it. it's kinda hard to type out what I'm trying to say. only if we have a voice post.
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Mel
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rowskid86
Apr 19 2007, 12:00 AM
Mel
Apr 18 2007, 05:45 PM
Rowskid,

You're not helping one bit.  :rolleyes:

I didn't intend it to sound the way it did. one of those sounded better in my head type thing.

Can I have a take 2?

People are going to argue, thats just how some of us are. there isn't much you can do luth about it. it's kinda hard to type out what I'm trying to say. only if we have a voice post.

Much better. :lol:
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rowskid86
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i thought that sounded better
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~Luthien~
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I only came to apologise i didnt want to start another thread about me and being selfish or whatever.

The only reason I feel responsible is because Ive never interfered in a argument in 3 years. Id figure maybe now I should say something and look where its lead Sistertrek.

Now if me trying to apologise and not give my opinion would help Sistertrek in a positve way I dont see how that is selfish or me just wanting attention..
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~Luthien~
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as for the other thread that has been closed..
Im gonna go out on a limp here and give my opinion once and for all, it will be the last time;

Whatever is between Anova and Noah should stay between you, i dont think its fair to bring other people into it.
What Noah said I KNOW he meant it, weve been good friends ever since I got here and Noah...likewise, youve helped me through so much and I will never forget our PM's and how we were able to help one another.

Now if someone takes offence to that..im sorry but you dont know the relationship between me and Noah, its private and I dont think its fair to make your own assumptions on it.

Again people dont get along, I get it. But is it really necessary when I make a thread saying how i feel responsible and want to apologise and then see Noah trying to cheer me up and getting attacked again??

Handle those issues via PM, Iam not a selfish person, I used to be one but not anymore, ask Hamuchi she was the one who taught me everything and i learned everything from her, not too mention the fact she saved my life.
This thread wasnt meant for me to get attention, it was merely an attempt to resolve some of the fighting on Sistertrek and again Hamuchi can back me up on this one, one way or another; I CANNOT STAND FIGHTING!
it upsets me and i tried to help and instead i made it worse and THATS why i feel responsible and THATS why i apologised.

Whatever quarrel people on this board have between them and someone else, fight it out through PM or something, but dont use other people in it.
And as far as Noah goes...I will and cannot believe he used me.
End of story
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Mel
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Apr 19 2007, 06:35 AM
I only came to apologise i didnt want to start another thread about me and being selfish or whatever.

The only reason I feel responsible is because Ive never interfered in a argument in 3 years. Id figure maybe now I should say something and look where its lead Sistertrek.

Now if me trying to apologise and not give my opinion would help Sistertrek in a positve way I dont see how that is selfish or me just wanting attention..

You didn't lead Sistertrek to fighting though. Sistertrek was already fighting before you stated your opinion about anything.

You have nothing to apologize for. :grouphug:
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We all know that what you were trying to do was help. Unfortunately the argument escalated further because of the dislike some users have towards each other and as you are so sensitive towards arguments/fights you felt responsible for it.

I think we can all understand, that this wasn't your fault at all and you shouldn't feel responsible for what happened. :)

As for attacking dr.Noah, I think it's unfair to post any kind of assumptions you have before checking it first with the person from whom the comment(or in this case compliment) came from or was meant for. Instead of throwing it out here publicly.

Doing just that, makes it come across like trying to start a fight for the sake of having one because you don't like the person whom it came from. It's sad actually that one can't keep their personal dislike of some users to themselves and instead have to fight each other publicly which causes people who don't have anything to do with it to get involved. And in this case even get hurt, which is what upsets me even more.

It comes basically down to this. Just think twice for posting any kind of remark or observation you make and don't just jump to conclusions. That especially goes when you doubt the intent of a comment made by a user one does not like. Just keep the personal dislike private so you don't suck all the air out of the fun boards, where people just want to have a good time. This way no-one can get involved and no-one can get hurt.
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You know, I'm really starting to like these "new" members....... ;)



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~Luthien~
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Sparky
Apr 19 2007, 12:57 PM
We all know that what you were trying to do was help. Unfortunately the argument escalated further because of the dislike some users have towards each other and as you are so sensitive towards arguments/fights you felt responsible for it.

I think we can all understand, that this wasn't your fault at all and you shouldn't feel responsible for what happened. :)

As for attacking dr.Noah, I think it's unfair to post any kind of assumptions you have before checking it first with the person from whom the comment(or in this case compliment) came from or was meant for. Instead of throwing it out here publicly.

Doing just that, makes it come across like trying to start a fight for the sake of having one because you don't like the person whom it came from. It's sad actually that one can't keep their personal dislike of some users to themselves and instead have to fight each other publicly which causes people who don't have anything to do with it to get involved. And in this case even get hurt, which is what upsets me even more.

It comes basically down to this. Just think twice for posting any kind of remark or observation you make and don't just jump to conclusions. That especially goes when you doubt the intent of a comment made by a user one does not like. Just keep the personal dislike private so you don't suck all the air out of the fun boards, where people just want to have a good time. This way no-one can get involved and no-one can get hurt.

See! I knew there was a reason your my boyfriend :wub:
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Spanky
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:wub: Awww, I spoke out how I felt, but there is?! And it is not called 'massage'? ;)
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Apr 18 2007, 03:51 PM
Can we all hug now? :(

Only if Rowskid puts his shirt on ;)
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rowskid86
Apr 19 2007, 05:00 AM
Mel
Apr 18 2007, 05:45 PM
Rowskid,

You're not helping one bit.  :rolleyes:

I didn't intend it to sound the way it did. one of those sounded better in my head type thing.

Can I have a take 2?

People are going to argue, thats just how some of us are. there isn't much you can do luth about it. it's kinda hard to type out what I'm trying to say. only if we have a voice post.

haha, that's just like my BF. It sometimes amazes me how wrong he can make it sound ;)
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captain_proton_au
Apr 19 2007, 06:24 PM
Sparky
Apr 18 2007, 03:51 PM
Can we all hug now?  :(

Only if Rowskid puts his shirt on ;)

:rotfl:

The same goes for you. :P
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