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the dave is back
Topic Started: Apr 8 2007, 08:17 PM (2,178 Views)
hamuchi
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ANOVA
Apr 18 2007, 02:32 PM
Mel
Apr 13 2007, 09:31 AM
Admiralbill_gomec
Apr 13 2007, 10:30 AM
Dr. Noah
Apr 12 2007, 01:15 AM
You know what I like about you Luth?  You aren't arrogant enough to think you're always right, you aren't rude enough to insult anyone who dares disagree with you, and generally, you're a real sweetheart.

Wow, nice passive-aggressive commentary!

:clap:

Really unnecessary! :no:

Really true. Noah's veiled attacks are allowed but someone with spine actually calls him on it and its uncalled for.

If I posted:

You know what I like about you AB? You aren't spineless enough to backdown when you believe you're right, you aren't anile enough to use passive agressive insults at anyone who dares disagree with you, and generally, you're a you show moral courage.

I would have been censored for attacking certain posters in this forum. Noah was his normal passive agressive self. I just don't understand why the women of this forum continue to defend his sophomoric slights and attacks.

Luthien, you were used. Noah used his "compliment" of you to insult others.

I see your point.

But I don't understand why you (not you Anova, generally speaking) don't start another similar forum if you consider the administration of this bord so awful?
I've had problems with the admins (and the owner) on 2 other forums I wrote on, mostly because of their atrocious double standards and personal interpretations of the rules.
Eventually I got fed up and started 2 new ones along with a bunch of other members.

That's just a thought and I hope I won't get "attacked" for it.
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ANOVA
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Hamuchi:

I honestly want an explantion from the adminstration on how Noah's constant slaps in the face disgusied as compliments are considered tolerable.

Imagine for a minute I wrote a compliment to you but kept referring to "other people".

"Gee, Hamuchi, you're so *insert complment*, unlike other posters from that region of Europe". Wouldn't you feel that my "compliment" was really a weapon to insult Luthien without referring to her directly. Rather then feeling complimented wouldn't you feel used? That is Noah's whole modus operandi, yet he is shielded from any critism for his smarmy moral cowardice.

BTW: Luthien, I'm using you as an example just becuase of where you live. You know i love you....like a much younger sister.
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~Luthien~
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Im really sorry...I guess I misunderstood then...but to me Noah has been nothing but a good friend so I cant imagine him as anything else..
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ANOVA
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~Luthien~
Apr 18 2007, 02:01 PM
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Im really sorry...I guess I misunderstood then...but to me Noah has been nothing but a good friend so I cant imagine him as anything else..

My opinion of him is already well known.
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~Luthien~
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Theres nothing I can do that could change the relationship between the 2 of you and i wont, i just dont like fights thats all
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hamuchi
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ANOVA
Apr 18 2007, 08:57 PM
Hamuchi:

I honestly want an explantion from the adminstration on how Noah's constant slaps in the face disgusied as compliments are considered tolerable.

Imagine for a minute I wrote a compliment to you but kept referring to "other people".

"Gee, Hamuchi, you're so *insert complment*, unlike other posters from that region of Europe". Wouldn't you feel that my "compliment" was really a weapon to insult Luthien without referring to her directly. Rather then feeling complimented wouldn't you feel used? That is Noah's whole modus operandi, yet he is shielded from any critism for his smarmy moral cowardice.

BTW: Luthien, I'm using you as an example just becuase of where you live. You know i love you....like a much younger sister.

Yeah, I know what you mean and I see your point.
However I feel I can't say whether Luth got used or not, I simply haven't been following what dr.Noah has written before so I can't judge his purposes.
On almost every forum I've been a member of, there's been a problem with passive aggressiveness. And, with few exceptions, it's gone by without consequenses.
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24thcenstfan
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ANOVA
Apr 18 2007, 08:32 AM
Mel
Apr 13 2007, 09:31 AM
Admiralbill_gomec
Apr 13 2007, 10:30 AM
Dr. Noah
Apr 12 2007, 01:15 AM
You know what I like about you Luth?  You aren't arrogant enough to think you're always right, you aren't rude enough to insult anyone who dares disagree with you, and generally, you're a real sweetheart.

Wow, nice passive-aggressive commentary!

:clap:

Really unnecessary! :no:

Really true. Noah's veiled attacks are allowed but someone with spine actually calls him on it and its uncalled for.

If I posted:

You know what I like about you AB? You aren't spineless enough to backdown when you believe you're right, you aren't anile enough to use passive agressive insults at anyone who dares disagree with you, and generally, you're a you show moral courage.

I would have been censored for attacking certain posters in this forum. Noah was his normal passive agressive self. I just don't understand why the women of this forum continue to defend his sophomoric slights and attacks.

Luthien, you were used. Noah used his "compliment" of you to insult others.

And which "the women" would that be?

Now I feel used in your attempt to make a point to Luthien and attack Dr. Noah.
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~Luthien~
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The only reason I defend Noah is because i know him as a good friend and a good person, I dont follow the political boards so I dont know what quarrels go on there.
I didnt see an attack in there either but maybe thats because english isnt my native language.

I could defent Mel or anyone really just as well as Noah, like i said i dont see any negativity in Noah
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Fesarius
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And besides, Fes likes you just the way you are. :yes:
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ANOVA
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24thcenstfan
Apr 18 2007, 02:13 PM
ANOVA
Apr 18 2007, 08:32 AM
Mel
Apr 13 2007, 09:31 AM
Admiralbill_gomec
Apr 13 2007, 10:30 AM
Dr. Noah
Apr 12 2007, 01:15 AM
You know what I like about you Luth?  You aren't arrogant enough to think you're always right, you aren't rude enough to insult anyone who dares disagree with you, and generally, you're a real sweetheart.

Wow, nice passive-aggressive commentary!

:clap:

Really unnecessary! :no:

Really true. Noah's veiled attacks are allowed but someone with spine actually calls him on it and its uncalled for.

If I posted:

You know what I like about you AB? You aren't spineless enough to backdown when you believe you're right, you aren't anile enough to use passive agressive insults at anyone who dares disagree with you, and generally, you're a you show moral courage.

I would have been censored for attacking certain posters in this forum. Noah was his normal passive agressive self. I just don't understand why the women of this forum continue to defend his sophomoric slights and attacks.

Luthien, you were used. Noah used his "compliment" of you to insult others.

And which "the women" would that be?

Now I feel used in your attempt to make a point to Luthien and attack Dr. Noah.

Go with that feeling.
Try every women who attacked AB. Do you need a list or can you follow along without the sheet music?
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O.O I never attacked AB
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ANOVA
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~Luthien~
Apr 18 2007, 02:40 PM
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O.O I never attacked AB

I didn't say you did.
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~Luthien~
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I know that but i just wanted to let people know that its not always a 10 against 1 thing
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Dr. Noah
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Let me make myself perfectly clear before ANOVA believes he can interpret all my actions by his paranoid delusion.

Luthien, I have never met a kinder, sweeter, and humble person as yourself. I thought of many times leaving this board for good, but I knew you were in trouble, and wanted to make sure a friend of mine go through tings alright. I'm so glad we had all those heart to heart PMs and were able to work through some stuff together. I'm so proud of you that you have been able to push through and manage your depression. It's not an easy thing to do, and as I had a similar experience, I'm glad I could offer some help. I also wanted to thank you for being such a good friend. You have no idea how much you helped me through a very difficult time in my life while my marriage was ending and finding my new place in the world. You are a good friend, and I am so glad to know you. I would never use you for anyting, I consider you to be one of my best online friends. And hope someday you can tour Asia. I'd love to show you (and your boyfriend) around. Take great care. Noah.
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ANOVA
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Are you keeping score now?
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