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I need to get this off my chest...
Topic Started: May 29 2005, 05:58 PM (572 Views)
Fesarius
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Welsby,

You'll be fine. You're quite stable, and I have a lot of confidence in you. :)
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Cheers Fes! :)

And Proton, no. I had the hair removal last week. Waxing hurt! :lol:
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Sophie
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Keeper of the spider-cats
I agree with what everyone else said.

I think this song is appropriate for the moment:

Sometimes in our lives we all have pain
We all have sorrow
But if we are wise
We know that there's always tomorrow

Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
'Til I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

Please swallow your pride
If I have things you need to borrow
For no one can fill those of your needs
That you don't let show

Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
'Til I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can't carry
I'm right up the road
I'll share your load
If you just call me

So just call on me brother, when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'd understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Lean on me when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
Till I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

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What is the song called, and who is it by?
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Sophie
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the song is called Lean on Me and it is by Bill Withers
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Ah, i thought I knew it! Thanks. :)
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Fesarius
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That was a tune I used to listen to in High School--quite moving.
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24thcenstfan
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Something Wicked This Fae Comes
Mike Welsby
May 30 2005, 11:40 AM
Thanks for the advice guys.

Reading my original post back it seems silly and dis-jointed.

But, you get how i'm feeling. I am considering seeing a professional about what happened. I'm not over it, no matter how much I try and kid myself I am. I'm fearful of large groups, especially groups of young teenagers. I know thats natural, it happened last time I was punched a couple of years ago. I always got nervous whenever I walked past someone, just incase they stuck thier arm out.

It'll pass, but perhaps this time I need some help...

Thanks again guys. It means a lot to me. :)

I am glad you are considering getting help. Don't let the a**holes who hurt you beat you mentally. Get yourself healthy and back on track. Besides them rotting in jail, that can be the best revenge.
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Dr. Noah
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I'm really sorry to hear that you're not feeling well pal.

Remember though that change creates a lot of stress with the new job and new schedule, I bet you're getting used to the change still. Not to mention the beating you took a couple weeks ago.

Being single is rough sometimes, but remember that good things generally happen to people who just are themselves and care about others. I think you have both in spades.

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Thanks Noah, 24. You know how to make a guy feel better!

Noah - I think I owe you a PM...
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Fesarius
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Welsby,

Psyfi's insights might be helpful as well. :yes:
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Yeah, i read that. It was helpful. I was reading it again earlier...
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Fesarius
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^^^
I was suggesting that you might consider a PM to Psyfi as well. :yes:
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Don't worry! I'll get there in time!

I usually PM Noah, but over the last wek or so, i haven't...
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Fesarius
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I don't PM all that often, with a couple of exceptions. But I am a good listener. ;)
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