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| Tweet Topic Started: Nov 29 2005, 02:27 AM (124 Views) | |
| Agent_J | Nov 29 2005, 02:27 AM Post #1 |
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ok, well me and my gf is having problems. we just meet like not that long, like two months or so but we have been having lots of problems. like we already broke up three times already. because she ask me to join this world game (that includes chatting) but since we have join it we have been fighting about the ppl i meet there. but when either one of us is not there we are cool and talk all nite long. but idk. she just got me nuts. im failing my classes, and havent gotten any sleep for a while because i dont want us to break up yet. she just means too much to me, like i pour my heart oh her, and i guess she gets kinda over protective, and on the game lots of the ppl i know are girls too, so i guess she is mad because of that. but since then i have been drinking bad. i know why risk so much, well i never been in love and i guess i am. but idk what to do, and the sad this is that we live across the state, yea me in cali and she is in NY :cry: but i dont just want to drop her yet u know, im not obsessing or anything like that but i really do love her but she just keeps on getting mad how i know so many girls, and yes i admit i have said some bad things and done some too but i never really though of it because i though since she was my gf she wont mind if i talk to other ppl and have some of my space, but she wants my full attention on her. so i gotta give it, and idk, lol just fools rushed in i guess and now we broke up again and i just let her go so what do i do? and she know she cant either, but should i just give her time or something? so got any advise for me? how to handle it and stuff thx |
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| Seoul Survivor | Nov 29 2005, 02:37 AM Post #2 |
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Thanks Jay!
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Well... The nice thing about dating, is that it is sort of like a buffet. If on your first go-'round you don't like the broccoli, you don't have to get it on the next run. Obviously hormones are playing a big part here. My personal suggestion? For a relationship this new, you are obviously having too many problems. GENTLY let her go. //Seoul |
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| Angel | Nov 29 2005, 02:50 AM Post #3 |
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how about stop playin that game... pay more attention to her...even tho theres other girls around...but being far apart physically...you hafta make a stronger emotional bond to make up for it....she's probably nagging ya cuz she loves u too, and wants u to focus on her i dunno...good luck, bro wuts ur myspace site again? |
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| Yo-Tai-Keizuke | Nov 29 2005, 03:09 AM Post #4 |
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This is all about you, John. What do you want? Do you want to keep your classes from failing? Then let her know and if she loves you, she'll understand. Do you want the relationship to not have problems that lead you to drinking? Let her know that is doing damage. Also, she wants your full attention on her and she hates it when you talk to other girls... Let me put it this way, any girl would be behaving the same way if they had their favorite idol as their boyfriend. heh |
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| MinJun | Nov 29 2005, 04:57 AM Post #5 |
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as Vic said maybe hormones are playing a big part here?! i think everyone needs enough of own space in every relationship. otherwise you'll never be able to feel lucky. in this one you are harming yourself - is it worth it? no man, no boy/girl is worth this! compromises have to be done in most relationships (and that's ok) but this seems to be badly onesided in your case. Vic said everything what you need to know (my opinion). i wish you good luck John and the necessary power to handle this situation. |
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| Agent_J | Nov 29 2005, 09:05 PM Post #6 |
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lol thx u guys wow gotta love ur opinions next time ill ask u ppl first and thx we got together again yea i suck but she is hot :love: and she knows how to handle my account better lol but thx and we decided to compromise this time but thx u all u been great :D |
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| headache | Nov 29 2005, 10:46 PM Post #7 |
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dude i dont wanna be like an a$$hole or anything and im not sure how old you are.. love is one h*ll of a word to use it and say it like ur calling ur dog... honestly...with 2 months...you fall in love with a grl...that's pretty...fast... man i dont know...you can be sincere, be good to her, chill alot, just think about her, and other things in 2 months...can you honestly think that you can move that ahead of yourself by calling it a love? i think you really care about this girl. And I also believe that things can work out. But if she is taking your time to the point, where you cant have your own space, failing in school and put you to drinking problem...then maybe it's an one sided relationship. relationship only works if both side is willing to give up their part. And if you are the only one losing things...then that's not a love. Love in your perspective...but not in hers. Love is like a contract...offer, consideration...both got to be there...I see that you gave her your offer and consideration...obviously she doesnt want to accept it. As Seoul said...slowly...yet gently...move your heart away... |
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| Agent_J | Nov 30 2005, 12:53 AM Post #8 |
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well actually i am scared of the word love but i just seem to love to use it on her because she makes me feel good like happy u know like when a person is there for u that supports u in what u do and say its wrong when ur doing something wrong a person that sticks up for u i had lots of gf (not braging) and none of them made me feel as good as she does idk maybe im just going nuts but i believe in her and in us too but thx u guys but i think ill stick with her for now :D its just my heart lol i know about love dude but and what it can do but u do gotta still stick together a try it out u never know she might acutally be the one for me but thx for u all worryen about me its good to know :D laters y all |
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| Angus Mac | Nov 30 2005, 01:46 AM Post #9 |
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That World game wouldn't happen to be World of Warcraft? I know it's a great game, but take it from an internet junkie who's been there; drop the habit NOW. You'll save your grades, your health, and your money. And if you're increasing your committment towards a relationship, you'll have to shift your existing female friends towards casual acquaintances, where they're more a support group for your primary relationship, instead of a side distraction. It's a difficult trade, but hopefully worth it. On the chance you're "on" again, take the 10 extra bucks a month from World of Warcraft, and get a mobile-to-mobile phone plan. There's also those sayings where love is putting others ahead of yourself. When it goes both ways, it's magic. |
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| Seoul Survivor | Nov 30 2005, 01:49 AM Post #10 |
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Thanks Jay!
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Angus, how can you be so sharp, and have such an odd little nose?? //Seoul |
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| Agent_J | Dec 1 2005, 10:11 AM Post #11 |
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lol no its not world warcaft its a game sponsed by disney land its pretty cool actually. its called Virtual Magical Kingdom or VMK but watch out if full of little kids lol and its got a curfew to it too from 7 am - 10 pm west coast time and 10 am - 1 am east coast time (in united states coasts) but if u ppl sign up refer me princeshinlyarmor lol yup gay but u gotta love and if lucky u might meet my girl Pandi on there too but any comments just ask |
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