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It’s about that girl from BB, Jocelyn!; I DID IT! I TOOK THE RISK!
Topic Started: Aug 21 2004, 12:14 AM (658 Views)
Seoul Survivor
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Well, in our defense, maybe Angelo Arnell, and I have also sat around trying to get a hopeless relationship to fly. Edwinster has been messing around with this one for three months, and still "isn't to first base". So my theory is minimize your losses. Look at the math, she hasn't given Edwin the slightest sign of hope.
While hope is a lovely thing, it only goes so far. This is, IIRC, Edwin's first relationship. So he hasn't seen the signs of one that "might" work and doesn't know when he's gotten a rotten apple.
My experience is that you usually know in a couple of days if there's hope or not. But three months: No.
Time to set your sights on another one, Edwin. If she suddenly comes to her senses, then you win, but don't bet the farm.

//Seoul
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Glad you took the risk but don't sit around waiting forever. Do what you gotta do. ^^*

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We're also looking out for the interests of a fellow man.
Us having such experiences (good or bad) can ease the pain, cushion the blow, and give a persepective from all angles. We want the guy to be happy, but we don't want him to be completely crushed either.

I'm all for encouraging my friends with stuff like this, but I won't let them not see the bad side incase it ever comes up. I'd rather they be aware of what may happen and be somewhat ready to deal with it instead of them losing themselves and not knowing what to do.

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I think the true meaning of lust is simply greed for
something thats not yours nor meant to be yours.
which s one of like the deadly sins and stuff .
Wicked people go killing and steal because of it.
Like George Bush going after Iraq

the word I think your debating over here, is PRIORTY.
the hieracy of reasons for the attraction to
or attractiveness of a potential partner
...#1 being whatever (porn star)?
and ect.....
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Edwin Oppa, I say, "Have fun while you're still young!!!" (and yes, you would be considered young, Oppa.....) Have fun. This is where you can enjoy yourself! I mean, you're old enough to go out with someone without having to go behind your parent's backs, yet your young enough to be able to get into a relationship that doesn't have to be, as I say, "Red Roses." (Translation: It doesn't have to be "let's-get-married serious.") If you feel that way about Faith, then do what your heart says. No one else can tell you what you feel in your heart. Now, I'm not dissing Vic Oppa or Arnell Oppa, or Angel Oppa, hehe......I'm just saying it's nice to hear advice and opinions from others, but let your heart and soul scream out with what you believe. Vic and Arnell and Angel Oppas have great advice, I mean, it could turn out bad, and they really, REALLY care about you and just don't want you to get hurt. Heck, I don't want you to get hurt! No one wants you to get hurt! And I'm not saying to completely mute them out, either. I'm simply telling you to listen to your heart.


Follow my heart... :) That i'll do donsang, that i'll do. :love:

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If you're heartless like me, they can't tear you apart~! XP

Just something to think about... XD


You know, is not always bad to tell a lie and is not always good to tell the truth, but sometimes not telling the complete truth, is a lie... My point is, say what you maym but i'll never believe you're heartless, i refuse to. :)

Vic
 
Well, in our defense, maybe Angelo Arnell, and I have also sat around trying to get a hopeless relationship to fly. Edwinster has been messing around with this one for three months, and still "isn't to first base". So my theory is minimize your losses. Look at the math, she hasn't given Edwin the slightest sign of hope.
While hope is a lovely thing, it only goes so far. This is, IIRC, Edwin's first relationship. So he hasn't seen the signs of one that "might" work and doesn't know when he's gotten a rotten apple.
My experience is that you usually know in a couple of days if there's hope or not. But three months: No.
Time to set your sights on another one, Edwin. If she suddenly comes to her senses, then you win, but don't bet the farm.

//Seoul


Yes, i've been going with this for three months, but she got the poem the other day (if she did), so basically, if anything is to start, it has started since two weeks ago. Since in this situation, it be awkward for anyone to just just thank a person who gave you a poem, it might take more time. Then again, she's just not interested in me. Therefore, being that this situation is one of the most rarest ever given, the rules of what usually consists the start or the fall of a relationship, might not apply here. Anyway, i'm not giving up on her, i still want her as a friend more than anything if all else fails. But, i'm not waiting for her.

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Glad you took the risk but don't sit around waiting forever. Do what you gotta do. ^^*

-Danni


You shouldn't have said that, because i'm gonna take that advice and the one going after you is one that rhymes with Bi. lol joking :)

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Love is blind, but even with sight, it's not any easier.


Another great quote...heh :cool:

Anyway, thanks all of you for your advice, understanding, love, and support. You guys are the best, much appreciated. :)
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Nyah! I'm not done! I had guests over the weekend and was unable to post!!! Don't forget me!!! :ahhhh: :opps: :cry:

Okay, first of all, I have to say: I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!!!!
You guys care so much to devote all this time and effort of yours just so you can let your heartfelt opinon and advice be heard. Y'all are the biggest, most loving group I've ever met!!! :cry: Imma cry! I'm glad I have a group like you guys to turn to when I need advice!!!!

Another thing: I care too. I would really, REALLY hate for my Edwin Oppa to get hurt, honest!!! :opps: That would be terrible! I couldn't live with myself after that!!! (Well, truth be told, I can't even live with myself now, and nothing's happened yet.......-_-+ ) But, then again, I do want my Oppa to be happy. Okay, y'all......story time!!!! Listen UP!!!
Okay. Yeah, Edwin has known Faith for like, three months, and y'all think it's time to move on, because even though Edwin's shown his interest, Faith hasn't......but, you know, maybe Faith doesn't KNOW that Edwin was showing interest! You see, she might have just thought that he was being really nice to her because he was supposed to, because if he's rude to his customers, he might get fired!!! See??? So, there you have it! She might have just thought he was being nice because he had to.
OR!!!!
There's another reason. She might not know!!! Honest! You see, I am best friends with this guy, right? I've known him for three YEARS and I just recently found out a couple of months ago, back in May, that he had liked me for those three years. Now, given the situation, I was spooked.....three years, this dude flirted with me, and I had no freaking clue!! I was a wreck. But, that's not the point.....the point is, I had no idea what soever that for those three years, that guy was showing his interest. Only when he told me did I know. So, now that Edwin's made his move, y'all can forget those three months, because only now have things gotten started! You see???? So, now it might have been two weeks since Edwin gave that poem to Jessica, and we just have to wait and see what comes of it. Perhaps for the past two weeks, she hasn't come in, but I say wait and let God do His Work!

Have Faith!!! (Teehee!!!)
She's back, the one and only, HyesungLover. :D
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And it's MONDAY. Any news whatsoever??

(He's been amazingly quiet. Either the hurricane knocked out the internet down there, nothing happened, and he's worried we're right, or (gasp sigh!! (hopefully!!)) He got to first base!!

//Seoul
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Sep 6 2004, 03:34 PM


Have Faith!!! (Teehee!!!)[/SIZE][/color]

OMG how did I miss that????? Go to the head of the class Hyesung!!

//Seoul
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First off, that was heartfelt, donsang...you always know what to say. :)

But, unfortunately, had their been any good news, i would've reported them to you guys already. Now, not to say that there's bad, it's just that there's no news at all. She hasn't shown up and they haven't rent since them. I know, i've been keeping track of their account.

First base, Vic? I WISH! lol
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I agree totally with Hyesyng, on this. But would like to add, while everything in life is a risk, you minimize your odds. In this particular case, I would put a little logic ahead of my emotions, (and hormones, for that matter). If you look at the math, it's been three months, and she hasn't even given you the slightest sign. Toss this one back, buddy, and go look for another. There IS a lady out there for you Edwin. This one isn't the one.


//Seoul
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what a sad ending. : (

this would make a good video for a korean ballad.
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Sep 15 2004, 04:55 PM
this would make a good video for a korean ballad.

Oh Great.
Another Lee, Soo-Young howling-yowler. ("... Goodbye, PR guy....")
Or maybe you invision one of our flock of Elvis impersonators?? ("...She left me crying at the Blockbuster....")
Or maybe Sung, SiKyung: "Boo-Hoo Night on PR Island"?
Or maybe Kiss could do "Because of Being a Dork at BlockBuster"??
Gag!
I could just see the flock of TVs flying out of windows, when KMTV ran those. Rather than totaling votes for the vid, they would be totaling fatalities from flung TVs...

No let's pass on that opportunity.

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no way! those make the best videos! :nonono:

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Sep 16 2004, 02:26 PM
no way! those make the best videos! :nonono:

NO WAY!!
There is no way videos about Edwins love life, (or lack there of) would make entertaining videos. After three months, you would find someone who invented a vacuum cleaner, powered by those videos. ("Why??") Thanks for asking. 'CAUSE THEY WOULD SUCK!!!
I mean these would rival the worst country and western howlers. These would be the songs that show what dorks our generation is! TV stations would have a "Hee Haw" Thursday, and feature one new "Ecwin Video" each Thursday, and count the amount of barf.
Jerry Lewis Labor Day telethons would threaten to PLAY a video, if they didn't get enough pledges. Islamic terrorists would strap victims into airplane seats, and torture them by playing the videos. Rather than pumping someone's stomache, the the ER, they would just put on an Edwin Video, and leave for a few minutes: Done Deal.
You might sell them to Country Music Television, but not KMTV.

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Oh Great.
Another Lee, Soo-Young howling-yowler. ("... Goodbye, PR guy....")
Or maybe you invision one of our flock of Elvis impersonators?? ("...She left me crying at the Blockbuster....")
Or maybe Sung, SiKyung: "Boo-Hoo Night on PR Island"?
Or maybe Kiss could do "Because of Being a Dork at BlockBuster"??
Gag!
I could just see the flock of TVs flying out of windows, when KMTV ran those. Rather than totaling votes for the vid, they would be totaling fatalities from flung TVs...

No let's pass on that opportunity.

//Seoul
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NO WAY!!
There is no way videos about Edwins love life, (or lack there of) would make entertaining videos. After three months, you would find someone who invented a vacuum cleaner, powered by those videos. ("Why??") Thanks for asking. 'CAUSE THEY WOULD SUCK!!!
I mean these would rival the worst country and western howlers. These would be the songs that show what dorks our generation is! TV stations would have a "Hee Haw" Thursday, and feature one new "Ecwin Video" each Thursday, and count the amount of barf.
Jerry Lewis Labor Day telethons would threaten to PLAY a video, if they didn't get enough pledges. Islamic terrorists would strap victims into airplane seats, and torture them by playing the videos. Rather than pumping someone's stomache, the the ER, they would just put on an Edwin Video, and leave for a few minutes: Done Deal.
You might sell them to Country Music Television, but not KMTV.

//Seoul

OH MY GOD!!!

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Had Faith been in my life, she would've gotten a real good kick out of this. lol
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Little update:

Saw Jessica today, but no Faith. I was inside of Blockbuster when i saw Jessica. She was returning the movies she had rented. She saw me and waved. At first i didn't realize who she was but i waved anyway. Then i realize it was Jessica and smiled. But, she was gone. I tried to look in what car she got on and who was driving but since it was raining, i didn't get a good look at the driver. Maybe it was Faith, who knows.

So, yeah, this is all. The thing is, couldn't Jessica at least send a message (if Faith doesn't want to see me) from her friend saying "Thank you, it was a lovely poem"? But i guess since it was a drop off, it's understandable somewhat... :(

Just when i am over Faith, this happens...
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Edwin, forgive me, but being able to see the "big picture" a little better, Faith wasn't a keeper. She isn't one of the classier ladies around. You've learned froim her how to NOT handle other people's advances, when they come. (NOTE THE WORD "WHEN" NOT IF. Got that?

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Yeah, i know. But, there's always the slightest bit of hope, Vic, i can't seem to let go of that.
"though the ocean is big...but it can wave and do a lot of tricks." -Val-

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Hurry now
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Edwin, there was some ghastly awful C&W song from a few years back, about thanking God for unanswered prayers. This might be a good time to do that. Had you gotten your wish, you would have been kissing this woman's rear end for the rest of your relationship's life. (never getting beyond kissing it...) Toss this one back, buddy.


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Vic, there are no rules to love. What if i am persistant and manage to get her attention? Some girls like that, when a guy goes the extra mile for them. And, you're saying "toss her", but, what if i get another chance? What if by listening to you i loose the chance that will get me to talk to her and starting a relationship? I mean, right now, there's no one in my life and i don't see anyone happening anytime soon. Therefore, still leaning on Faith isn't hurting anyone...well i weight 250 pounds...that's a lot of hurting. lol Anyway, what i mean is, sometimes just one risk doesn't cut it and i'm still not loosing anything by pursuing her. :)

Another update:

It seems Faith did enter the doors of Blockbuster! But, she did on the 14th of this month! Bad thing was i was off that day. I didn't know she came until today! The thing is that, now i am nervous! Cause i thought she was shy and didn't want to see me to the point where she would never enter BB...but, it seems that's not the case which means she could enter at any moment. Now i am nervous! heh :)
"though the ocean is big...but it can wave and do a lot of tricks." -Val-

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Caliente like a volcano
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Express Love: (Kuai Ti Ai Qin)

Hurry now
Don't wait for time to pass you by
Find a way to keep the sparks, alive alive
Hurry now
Don't let that someone pass you by
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