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Do you oppose gay marriage?
Yes 5 (71.4%)
No 2 (28.6%)
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Gay marriage; Do you oppose it? If yes or no, why?
Topic Started: May 26 2004, 04:57 PM (130 Views)
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I kow i once posted a similar thread to this one. However, this is just a question. And, please, this might be a controversial issue surrounding todays news, but i do not wish to see this thread closed. Everyone's opinion based on believe or themselves is just that, i ask that you respect it even if you disagree.

I am in favor of gay marriage. They're people, just like us. Whomever they choose to marry or for whatever reason, should not interfere with them having chose the option of marriage.

P.S. I accidently picked "Yes", i meant "No".
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i don't

im against homosexuality in general. it conflicts with my religion.
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for me..im catholic..so it does go agenst my religion...but i have a lot of family and friends who are gay or bi..and i love them..their sexual preference is none of my business..and i don't really care either..so if two people wanna get married...and there tha same sex...den good for dem..cuz dey love eachother and thurr not afriad to show it...

but dats just my opinion..

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I'm against it. It goes against my religion. Now, besides that, I'm against it because of the way marriage is defined. You can't just go through changing the definition of words. XD

Anyway, I have a lesbian friend, and I don't think any less of her. However, I'm still against it. Now, I'm not against "Partnerships" or whatever they're called. I think it's sinful, but if that's who they think they love, that's who they think they love...
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thats just it. I am not going to shun anyone who *is* gay. I know plenty of them, but i strongly believe that homosexuality *is* a sin. I am not going to act any differently to a gay person, then a straight person, but that doesnt mean i agree with homosexuality. I dont, i think its wrong. But again, thas juss me.
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Well, I will shun the ones that make out and such in public. x_x I don't want to see that! Keep it private, you know? Of course, I don't want to see straight people making out either! >.<
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May 27 2004, 11:33 AM
Well, I will shun the ones that make out and such in public. x_x I don't want to see that! Keep it private, you know? Of course, I don't want to see straight people making out either! >.<

LoL...foh real...haha

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hrms. . .im against it. .
the reason why i choose against it, is complex.
i know many people that are gay - my hairdresser is gay and dayum, he can sure make my hair look good. hehee!!`and Michyu Girl lol !! i totally agree with you...there's something somewhat disturbing when i see people of the same sex making out or whatever...its like...i dont know...disturbing lol. my friend once said "god made adam and eve, not adam and steve"
LOL. i thought that was a crack up. haha.
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XDD 'Adam and Steve'! XD I'm going to have to use that one! Thankies~! XDDD
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i think ppl have the right w/ who they wanna be w/ regardless the gender, race, ect . . . it's the same thing as not wanting other races married to other races? u know what i mean? so what does the gender differ? i mean . . . altho bush wants it for a good cause, he can't control ppl's feelings and lifes! and i thought that taxes was good enough too! dayums! does he have to go that far as to outlaw it in CA!??!!

oki . . . i'm calmed . . . i'm totally against it . . . i think ppl have their own choices w/ who they wanna be w/ . . . no one can control their feelings . . . jeezers . . .
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Against homosexuality in general. I'm Christian and jus like Alyssa said.
It's jus a sin and taking it as far as marriage is too much. I strongly oppose it.

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if you see it in the political view, then its discrimination or whatever. I dont see it in that view. I see it in a Christian view, so i oppose it. I see where you are coming from, they *are* people who love someone of the same race.

But you can *help* your feelings.

I know a preacher that used to be gay.
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I know a preacher that used to be gay.

foh real??...but when you say he "used" to be..does it mean he was but den found out he wasn't..or..wat...

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there we go with the religion again.. I mean.. if God loves everyone why did he make Gay people? to make them suffer? I say I'm ok with it.. it's dumb to keep someone from soemthing they love.. and people that let there religion get i nthe way of what they really desire.. idk what to say to you.. but to be you.. not what someone you have never met wants you to be..

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Well said, David, well said.

What if i went back in time and changed the course of history by allowing some sort of homosexuality approval in all religion? This would make all those againts it because of Religion, not against it. Or if simply, if all religions allowed it, none of you would be against it. What does this say?

And, if you think about it, not all of us approve of marriage. I'm sure many of you don't approve of the marriage between an old rich man and a young 20 year old woman. Also, marriage isn't sacred nowadays, please, Micheal Jackson got married, how sacred is that? Plus, many marriages today end up in divorce. In fact, there's a higher percentage of divorced marriages than marriages itself. Oh, and, the idea that homosexual marriages are the breeding grounds for future homosexuals is whack. You know what? Heterosexual marriages are the breeding grounds for future homosexuals.

If a man and a man, or woman and a woman, just want to get married, why not? Is that so wrong? I respect those whom it conflicts with their religion, but, think for yourself, how is that such an abomination? How does that affect your life? What wrong does it do to your life? It changes nothing.

One day, it'll be approved. Maybe not that soon, but perhaps in a thousand years. What then? You'll just be against it, but it's approved. That's it, end of story. People by then will be thinking "how could've ever been such a big deal?".
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May 28 2004, 01:46 AM
What if i went back in time and changed the course of history by allowing some sort of homosexuality approval in all religion? This would make all those against it because of Religion, not against it. Or if simply, if all religions allowed it, none of you would be against it. What does this say?

And, if you think about it, not all of us approve of marriage. I'm sure many of you don't approve of the marriage between an old rich man and a young 20 year old woman. Also, marriage isn't sacred nowadays, please, Micheal Jackson got married, how sacred is that? Plus, many marriages today end up in divorce. In fact, there's a higher percentage of divorced marriages than marriages itself. Oh, and, the idea that homosexual marriages are the breeding grounds for future homosexuals is whack. You know what? Heterosexual marriages are the breeding grounds for future homosexuals.

If a man and a man, or woman and a woman, just want to get married, why not? Is that so wrong? I respect those whom it conflicts with their religion, but, think for yourself, how is that such an abomination? How does that affect your life? What wrong does it do to your life? It changes nothing.

One day, it'll be approved. Maybe not that soon, but perhaps in a thousand years. What then? You'll just be against it, but it's approved. That's it, end of story. People by then will be thinking "how could've ever been such a big deal?".

WEE~! Time for me to try to answer these questions, even though I'm super bad with words! ^_^

If you went back in time, you couldn't change anything. God doesn't like homosexuality, and that's that. Time travel can't change the way God feels. Therefore, I'm still against it. As for IF it were accepted, I still wouldn't like it.

I disapprove of marriage between and old guy and a young chick, yes, under certain circumstances. If they are truly in love and she's not a gold digger, go for it. If not, I disapprove.

Man + man or woman + woman IS wrong. It's VERY wrong. That's not even natural! You can say, "In the animal kingdom, 10% of the animals...", but I say you don't know what you're talking about. Animals do that sort of thing (males, from what I've seen) to show DOMINANCE, not LOVE! There's quite a bit of difference. Homosexuals aren't showing DOMINANCE, they're trying to show LOVE, which I think is a false love. Trust me, you CAN control your feelings, and if you let yourself fall into homosexuality, it's your fault. You CAN convince yourself you love someone. Just go to any high school. You have girls everywhere convincing themselves they love a guy, sleep with him, break up, and say, "I thought I LOVED him!" There ya go!

And, yes, homosexual marriage will affect everyone. How are you supposed to explain to your son/daughter about homosexuality being WRONG if they are told constantly it's an acceptable way of life, endorsed by the government, and should never be taught against? Now, not every parent is AGAINST homosexual marriage, but I'm almost certain a great deal of parents would be quite upset if their child came home and said, "Yes, I'm gay, and I'm getting married to Bobby next month!" It will affect me, too. As it becomes accepted by the general populace, there will be more TV shows that have gay themes, and I mean more so that Will & Grace or Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. I'm talking like romance scenes, kissing, hugging, all that good mess. Music videos will have it, songs will have it, it'll be in advertising... It'll be everywhere I look. In that way am I affected. Oh, and another way, which could affect me right now. If a guy hits on me, and I slap him, it's okay. If a girl hits on me, and I slap her, I suddenly have a Hate Crime lawsuit to deal with because I hit a gay person. I don't want to be hit on by girls, but I also don't want to be hit on by guys. We're so busy trying to accept homosexuality that we're giving them special rights, one of which I've already stated. (By the way, you can tell me I'm full of it with the lawsuit, but it's happened before. Happened to a guy at my dad's old work.)

As for being approved... Abortion is approved, too. I, along with a great deal of others, am not saying, "How could've ever been such a big deal?" I'm still totally against it. It is not, however, end of story, as there are many people working their butts off to un-approve it. Unfortunately, I doubt it ever will be, and I doubt that gay marriage will be stopped, because, as I view it, our government is horribly corrupt. I hate politics...and politicians...

WEE~! That was fun, long, and I have the feeling I just made a complete idiot of myself, but oh well! XD
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ok you know.. being gay isen't wrong.. if you thin kthat your wrong.. your born that way your not taught to be gay.. so the h*ll if it's your own God Damn fault..it's not! it's like you liking a guy.. did you learn to do that or where you born that way!? you where born that way..

and why the h*ll would you base all your life and desions on a Book that a bunch of old men wrote way before Slaves you know they had less education it wasen't God that wrote the Bible it was people.. people telling people what to do.. so why are you listen to what a bunch of old Racist and preduduc(I thin kthats the word) men say? I mean if you heard soemone say "Blacks are Slaves they should stay that way!" do you listen to them? NO! and there alive.. so why are you listening to soem book written by a bunch of old guys..I'll take my chances if I go to h*ll for saying it's ok for Gays to be married then Id rather be in h*ll because I don't wanna live with soemone that hates soemone because of soemthing they where born with..
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i oppose gays perverting the institution of marriage. they can go ahead and keep their "civil unions".
and i back up and agree with everything Michyu Girl has so eloquently just said in her last post.

and this topic WILL be locked or deleted if it turns into some big political debate or argument.
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yeah well..thats just what i think..sorry..
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no need to be sorry for saying how you feel, lil bro. i just see this topic as having us argue with each other about something very personal. and our personal feelings wont be changed, so why bring it up here? especially when we're trying to keep up the good vibe of the forum. lets not argue amongst ourselves about this. or this forum may suffer for it.

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