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[need comments!] what do u think of this person?
Topic Started: May 20 2004, 03:06 AM (165 Views)
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What's the first thing that come to your mind when reading the details down here? and after you finish reading it...do you still feel the same way? (just wondering)

So, what do you think of this person?:

-female
-20
-never dated
-never kissed
-never had a bf
-never had sex
-but thought about doing all of the above

and...same thing with a guy
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...Sounds almost like me when I hit 20! XD Reading the last sentece, I thought, "...Huh?" XD I still felt pretty much the same. "Gosh, I'm gonna be a loser when I'm 20!" XD
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I don't think it's any big deal. It's not like people that experience that stuff always has the greatest time with it. If you hear all the "drama" (and they use that word) that I hear from people that do those things, then you would think why they do it anyways when it usually ends up bad like bad relationships and stuff.

Of all that you've listed, the things different for me is that I'm 21, never had sex, and have never had a boyfriend (I'm sure you meant it to be girlfriend for guys). And I've thought of having sex and had oppurtunities, but never took the chance. All would've been one-night deals and I'd rather not do that.
Only had 2 girlfriends and both lasted a total of maybe two and a half months. Last one was 3-4 years ago.

But that's a good ad to put in the "personals column." I'd be interested in that.
A curious girl is always intriguing. I think it would be cute to be there to see how someone without any experience with these things go about it. Like "I want to kiss you...but...I don't know..."
I myself would be there upping the romantic/cuteness of the situation and trying to make her feel comfortable.
Watch out though. Some guys would take advantage of the curious ones.

Again, no big deal. Some have the time and oppurtunities to have these things happen.
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May 21 2004, 12:38 AM
...Sounds almost like me when I hit 20! XD Reading the last sentece, I thought, "...Huh?" XD I still felt pretty much the same. "Gosh, I'm gonna be a loser when I'm 20!" XD

hold up...your 20??
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sounds just like me.. but i'm 17!! damn 3 more years and that would describe me.. :opps:
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Valerie, a few things you left out. First, what "race" are they? Americans, and Europeans are the most "advanced" (Very poor choice of words, but by this I mean they get 'started' earlier.) If this is an asian, especially a female, they're right on track. If they're American, there could be one of a zillion reasons as to why this has happened. Religion, perhaps their parents went through a very bad divorce, purhaps one parent died. They could have physical problems, making them unattractive, (either internally or externally).
This is like having two people sitting next to each other, but not able to see each others desk, and asking them to draw a box. You would get two different boxes.

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May 20 2004, 03:06 AM
-female
-20
-never dated
-never kissed
-never had a bf
-never had sex
-but thought about doing all of the above

college years....time to learn, hehe :love:
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I think that is probably gonna be me when i am 20.
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hey so I'm white am i normal?
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May 20 2004, 09:49 PM
hey so I'm white am i normal?

...no

dude, u SOOO asked for it that time, LOL!!!!!!!
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May 21 2004, 09:10 AM
sounds just like me.. but i'm 17!! damn 3 more years and that would describe me.. :opps:

but david, didnt u date someone?
then that's not you.


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If this is an asian, especially a female, they're right on track


isnt it kind of so late if she is at that age and have no experience whatsoever?

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May 20 2004, 10:48 PM
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If this is an asian, especially a female, they're right on track


isnt it kind of so late if she is at that age and have no experience whatsoever?

...yes and no...

it may be late by someone elses standards, but you shouldnt feel pressured to do something simply cuz everyone else has done it already.
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vietpucca
May 20 2004, 09:48 PM
isnt it kind of so late if she is at that age and have no experience whatsoever?

It's not like there's a race to experience these things. There's no time limit.
You just come upon these things as they happen.
Society and other things put a lot of pressure for these things to happen for some because you see it portrayed a lot. It's everywhere you look.
But it is always better to be ready to experience these things and not just be curious about it and possibly making a mistake or two along the way. Mistakes happen, but if you have control over it happening or not then I'm pretty sure you don't want the mistake.
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if i knew that person..i wouldnt change my opinion and the perspective i see them as if they had or hadnt... even if they were unexperienced in the love department ... itd still see them for who they are personality wise.
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ok, maybe for girls it wouldnt look as bad.

but how about guys?

-20
-never dated
-never kissed
-never had a gf
-never had sex (planning on doing so after marriage)
-but thought about doing all of the above

and let's say he's not so bad looking (same for the girl)

...and if you were a girl of age 16-18, would you go out with this guy?
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Quoting Arnell:
It's not like there's a race to experience these things. There's no time limit.
You just come upon these things as they happen.
Society and other things put a lot of pressure for these things to happen for some because you see it portrayed a lot. It's everywhere you look.
But it is always better to be ready to experience these things and not just be curious about it and possibly making a mistake or two along the way. Mistakes happen, but if you have control over it happening or not then I'm pretty sure you don't want the mistake.
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Valerie, that is pretty much right.


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dude, u SOOO asked for it that time, LOL!!!!!!!
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HAHA. I've never dated.. well never been on a real* date.
I've never kissed..
I've never had um.. yea

but then again... I'm only 14... = 6 more years.

If you really think about it though. I don't think it should really matter what age. Even if you were like 30 and you've never done any of those things. Things take time and for everyone those things and timing is different. You don't jus go around tryin to kiss, date, sex,.. ect jus cause you wanna do it before a certain age. You get around doing those things because you need to find the right person. It takes some time to find that person. For some... longer than others.. it only makes it all the more special for that person. lol. (Alyssa.. was that too long or too corny?) ^^;;

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wow that's very insightful for someone ur age to be saying ^^ very wise words


now, this is off the tangent but...one day i was walking home skool and see these two kids in a car making out. i think they were on top of each other and kissing.
they were about 12 or younger i think.

lol...they were kind of scared when i saw them.

i didnt realize that they were kids until i walked past the car.

at that point i was like "Aww!! I should've stood there alil longer so they'll be embarassed." lol...but not in a mean way...just playing around.
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i would not go out with that guy.
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