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Love Advice
Topic Started: Jan 2 2004, 03:08 PM (863 Views)
David
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Ok Jung here you go lets test this out.

if you have any love problems please feel free to post them :yayaya:
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YAY you took my idea of pinned topic (um ok I mean anyone could have that idea but STILL let me believe this myself LOL).... nice.... I will try to help anyone with problems.. but I think Mal is better with that ^^
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ok I got problem I have a ex gf and all she did was lie to me and everyone.. now how can i beat her lies And show everyone she did all this not me?
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thanks d... finally we have love in here...
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David
Jan 2 2004, 06:26 PM
ok I got problem I have a ex gf and all she did was lie to me and everyone.. now how can i beat her lies And show everyone she did all this not me?

Taking revenge on someone isn't the answer David. She did that for a reason. She had her reasons and she did was she did. It's not good looking back and thinking about "How am I going to get her back," It's all in the past and it's a good thing to leave it that way. Let those people think about you that way because she knows it and you know it that you didn't do anything wrong. That's what count. They may praise her, but you're the one that deserve it and not her. For she lied and you didn't. People that lied like that aren't worth wasting another breath on.

I don't make sense, huh? Oh well, I think I never do anyways.

And Tracy, I'm sure that you can do ten times more better than me.

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wow . . . yeah . . . what mal said . . . hahaha . . . i don't have love problems . . . just friendship probs . . . keke . . . but getting revenge is not gonna solve it . . . so you're the good guy and she's the bad guy . . . at least you know that you were the good one, bringing confisdence to yourself!!! and screw that girl . . . she can keep lying, but in the furture, something bad will get back at her . . . don't worries david . . .keke

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even if revenge is sweet...revenges has an endless story...if you want her gone...just ignore her...like i did..
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I agree with both Cina and Jung. hehe..

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thanks ladies :love:
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no prob! ^_^
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my turn... my turn~!~!

o.k. here it is...
my XXbf wants to go back out with me. we were together for almost 3 years before we split. i find myself still somewhat in love with him, but sadly i still remember WHY we split in the first place.
he had some respect issues such as: never calling when late, always expecting me to be there when he finaly gets there, and he took me for granted alot.
he wasnt always a jerk to me, but everytime i tried to talk to him about our problems... i'd know he wasnt really listening, so nothing would change~!
it got so frustrating that i was the only one trying to keep things together...
since then i have dated someone else.. (that was a whole disaster in itself) while he stayed alone, cuz according to what he told me... all he wants is me~!

i have been thinking of getting back together as long as he starts helping me with keeping it going... but i cant get the reasons NOT to out of me head. i am sooooo confused i cant even think anymore~!

if you guys think you can can help me.... please try~! i beg of you~! LOL~!

thanx a bunch~!
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well you know after breaking up you see alot of things differently maybe he saw what he did to you and will understand and listen to you and respect you now.. Everyone deserves a second chance so I say give him a week if he seems the same leave him.
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hm .. . very difficult . . . in my opinion . . . if he doesn't have respect for you as much as you have for him . . . then screw him . . . he doesn't deserve you if he can't listgen or put up w/ others, esp. you . . . he's probably just wants to use you some more until he gets tired, BUT ppl tend to change, so maybe he will show more to your relationship . . .

AND if he's not willing to give up his time to be w/. you and listen to you, ect . . . don't waste your breath (time) on him either . . . he doesn't know how much value and how much your worth to hinm, so maybe he will regret this in the future . . . don't worries . . . give him a another chance, but don't expect him to change much and put more effort in the relationship . . . but personally, i'll forget him and move on . .. although you may have feelings for him, they were temperorarily . . . AND i don't want to see someone (esp. a friend) to get hurt ever!!!

so if he screws up agains, hollas and i'll beat his @$$ up!!! keke

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Hmm....

Since he's your xxboyfriend, I think he had time to think over everything. You heard of the saying, "You never really appreciate someone until they're gone," Well, I'm guessing that after the break up, he came to realize how much you mean to him. I say give him another chance, but it's not up to me to decide. I can only tell you my opinion, the rest is up to you.

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Wow this topic is old....Lol but i am havin sum Love problems....Can anyone help meh?? Mal your realli good at dis...You helped meh that one day...
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Hey Sarah!

If you need help, just tell us what you need help on. One of us or all of us will be here to reply back to you.

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Ey Mal^^ Thx alot^^...You see mai problem is...You know mai bf...Jason??Well remember wen i told yooh that he got mad at meh wen i couldnt help him bcuz i was buzy...remember?? Well i was goin to break up wit him bcuz he's all pissed at meh and i dunt think i like him no more...Im not sure...Wat should i do??.... :( i feel like crying..
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You don't think? Or you do not like him no more?

Well, I still remember when you told me about it. Honestly, I have no clue why he would have been so mad over that. It's not worth getting mad over. Anyways, like I said before, I'm not going to tell you want to do. If you feel that you have lost all feelings toward him, then do as you wish.

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thanx mal and cina~! you are both right. i am gonna give him a second chance.... if he manages to screw it up again.... he is history~!
he and i are going to see a movie tomorrow, so i guess i will tell him then~!
i know he will be very pleased... i just hope that he doesnt strt being a jerk again. hes generaly a nice person, but evertone has a bad side. dont they?

Sarah.. id give my two cents, but i dont know all the stuff mal does.
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Jan 6 2004, 02:20 PM
Ey Mal^^ Thx alot^^...You see mai problem is...You know mai bf...Jason??Well remember wen i told yooh that he got mad at meh wen i couldnt help him bcuz i was buzy...remember?? Well i was goin to break up wit him bcuz he's all pissed at meh and i dunt think i like him no more...Im not sure...Wat should i do??.... :( i feel like crying..

don't break up with your bf because he's piss at you...try to like work things out through talking ok... :...:
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