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| The idea of two members of the same sex kissing; Are you comfortable with it? | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Nov 17 2003, 10:43 AM (95 Views) | |
| Yo-Tai-Keizuke | Nov 17 2003, 10:43 AM Post #1 |
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This is not a question about you being comfortable with gays and lesbians, no, this is about if you're comfortable with the idea of two people of the same gender kissing? What are your thoughts on it? With the ladies, of course I’m comfortable, but it's not like I am obsessed with it. I just don’t mind at all witnessing two woman kiss. It isn’t the fact that I’m open minded or I have a sense of believe and morality that leads me to accept that kind of interaction between two woman, I just don’t think is offensive nor degrading if two woman are expressing love through it. It isn’t either that I find it to be okay or approved cause in most cases, it isn’t, I just think that woman have the same right to kiss a woman as they do to kiss a man. The same applies with guys, but it’s a little bit different due to the fact that I’m a guy. I used to be disturbed by two guys kissing, I would turn my face away. I still do, but is extremely little. How did I get there? By being forced to watch Yaoi anime such as Gravitation, -Fake-, and Descendants Of Darkness all thanks to my wonderful sister. lol Now, I wasn’t forced, but I ended up liking the anime and afterwards started being more open minded to that perspective. Therefore with this new found sense, I’m able to express myself freely without worrying what others might say about me. I mean, often times I speak of our favorite male gasoos as if I were a crazy fan girl and if I guy thinks I’m gay because of that, he’s not hurting me, to call me gay is not to call me the worst thing in the world, I know what i am and what i'm not. So, by being comfortable with different issues, I’ve found that it has allowed me to be more free and more open than ever before. To deny love is to deny yourself. |
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| christine | Nov 17 2003, 11:19 AM Post #2 |
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Comfortable? What are you meaning? just a kiss? or necking? Just a kiss is cool for everyone and everything. Im not comfortable watching anyone NECK~! Yuck that's their business ..DONT ASK,-DONT TELL! homos OR heteros. I don't like to see people necking when Im at a bus stop or something. they scare me. I will be watching a movie or tv show that has alot of class, and then BAM that happens GROSS what the heck? I Just wish everyone would only kiss in front of people who ask for it. N.clubs and bars..it's ok ..ect ___________________________________________________________________ IF IM WATCHING ANYONE NECKING,..I WANT IT TO BE ME & MY PUPPY LOVE ! |
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| xCastleOutsider | Nov 17 2003, 04:10 PM Post #3 |
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haha same here edwin i wouldn't find if 2 guys did it but girls... ehh... i wouldn't wind it, but if i saw it, it would be distubing... and i have seen it before |
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| HyesungLover | Nov 17 2003, 05:12 PM Post #4 |
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Listen to what I have to say! Please! Okay. I am totally against two members of the same gender kissing, of course! Number one, because I'm against lesbians/gay men. Why? Because. You can say I'm religios and be correct. I am, most of the time, a very religious person. The whole idea of men being attracted to men and women being attracted to women is against God's way. There is a history behind homosexuality, though. It started in the city of Sodom, in Isreal somewhere or something like that. Men began to get attracted to other men. Why? Because the devil had cast a spell on this one man in that city, and the "trend" spread as men saw that they could not only get pleasure from women, but other men as well. Maybe you've heard the gross term "Sodomtry"? Yeah..... So I'm just trying to educate y'all on the history, so you can understand why I'm so against it. The one man that started this whole thing could have stopped it. But he was against God and did whatever the devil wanted him to do. So women also started to look at other women in a different way. Sorry if I disgusted anyone, but this is the truth. If y'all want to do yourselves a favor, grab a Bible and look up Genesis chapter 19 verse 1 to 9. It is not a descriptive passage, but it does explain a lot. Thanks for having to hear what I have to say, and thanks Yo-Tai-Keizuke for bringing that question up so I can teach everyone. I don't want you to be against the thought of homosexuality, but I just want people to know. |
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| christine | Nov 17 2003, 07:34 PM Post #5 |
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WOW Hysunglover I take that as definately a "not comfortable". LOL We know how homos sin ..there are LOTS (no pun intended) of sins. I know the bible too. But be nice...Don't condemn a homosexual person in the name of God? That's hate and stuff. If the question were about any other human weakness, sins,..would you have come up with three paragraphs and some bible historc events to guide us also? . . .or just to satisfy the controversially, biased and opinionated topics? ---Not loving your neighbor is a commandment. ---A person who does not love God with EVERY single thing he is made out of is breaking the first commandment. ---and all the other commandments.. got three paragraphs and bible history on any of them? ---Taking the name of God in vain is a common weakness and a commandment. ____________________________________________________________ |
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| HyesungLover | Nov 17 2003, 08:16 PM Post #6 |
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Very good, Christine! You have obviously done your homework! I accomplished my goal.....I actually made someone think. Yes, you are very right. I cannot hold a person accountable for every wrong thing he/she does. I guess the point I was trying to get across is that most homosexuals do not believe in the word of God and they do not follow Him. Those who do choose to ignore His Word or take it for granted. I believe that homosexuals can control whether or not they are attracted to the same sex or not. Straight people, however, are attracted to the opposite sex because that is the way God made us. When a homosexual person is born, they are born normal. Once they become older and become more mature, they are faced with a choice. Every single one of us is faced with a choice, actually, we just do not know it. We can choose to be attracted to the same sex, against God's Word, or we can remain on the actual path He has laid out for us. Most of us make the decision to remain straight and we don't even know it. So my main point? I'm against them a lot because of that very specifc choice they have made, when they could have controlled it. Call me prejudice if you will, it's just that I'm this really crazy religious person. But Christine, you are indeed right. I am not perfect, just like everyone else. I have my opinon. Everyone has their opinion. I am just taking advantage of this poll to teach others. I'm a missionary, and a deciple of Christ Jesus. This is my job! Love y'all! Thanks for listening! |
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| AMR | Nov 17 2003, 08:17 PM Post #7 |
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I don't see it as wrong as long as I don't have to |
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| iiNFAMOUS | Nov 17 2003, 08:21 PM Post #8 |
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Uh... I too agree with what those to before me said. uh. right on sista! lol. But, i really do go agaisnt the whole same gender thing. I too am a very strong Christian. |
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| AMR | Nov 17 2003, 08:21 PM Post #9 |
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BTW I don't get it if god see's it as wrong why didn't he stop it? |
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| KiMcHiLOVE | Nov 17 2003, 08:53 PM Post #10 |
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I'm going to say right now. I disagree with both of you (HyeSung Lover and Christine). So I'll rebuttle back to both of you. First off.... please... I'm not ntending any of this to sound mean.... but this is sort of becoming a debate and I'm going to express my opinion here and now. First off, HyeSung.... I VERY VERY STRONGLY am disagreeing with almost everything you said. Yes, I am Christian. Yes, I disagree with homosexuality. But thats about where our similarities stop. When you say the story in Chapter 19, you have the entire story wrong. Maybe we have different bibles, but I am reading from a NIV one.... so this is how it goes: First off, there was no one man who started it. There was no "trend" of homosexuality. Homosexuality came from the very begining, with Eve taking the forbidden fruit. This is where the sin comes from. Another thing, the devil can't cast spells.... and this is not why anyone in the city did this..... it was their own wickedness and sin.... The other thing I disagree with is... the way you put it..... like you are judging homosexuals... this is very dangourous. When you start judging people, that is like saying you're God.... it's not your place to judge... leave it to God.... Final thing...... you shouldn't hate those people..... you can hate the sin.... think about the quote "hate the sin, love the sinner".... thats what I'm talking about..... Ok.... now to Christine..... I agree with you more, but I don't understand why you're poking at the bible? What is the point of bringing up the verses? I am really confused (seriously).... if you could try to explain it... i'm sorta slow ^^;; anyway.... The bible says you're supposed to love your neighbor, right? Isn't that the point we are making.... of course, the point of loving thy God with all your mind, heart, strength, and soul is to make him.... uhhh.... i don't know the word! Well, no one can do all these things, even though God commands it... why? Because we're all sinners. The Bible tells us this in the very begining.... and then this was the reason why Jesus died for our sins. oooh whats that verse... seems to fit here.... oh yes! Romans 3:23-24 reads: "For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." i think it fits....? ionno.... heres my opinion: While I don't support it nor really like it..... (though every once in a while I do like a good slash couple.... ::cough::HOYOUNGXKYESANG::cough::) I DON'T go out and be like "OMFG I HATE GAYS AHHHH DIE YOU'RE GONNA BURN IN he double hocky sticks".... I do, however love the sinner and hate the sin.... the most important thing in this situation is to love thy neighbor as yourself... DANG.... i wrote too much.... and i'll probably get tons of flaming for it.... plus I didn't even answer the original question... hmmm..... anyway.... I'm finished.... ::EDIT::ok..... a lot of people replyed as i typed up this novel... so it's a little different >_< anyway, DAVID.... to answer your question.... God gives us a choice....a free choice.... why would you want your life dictated for you?? Adam and Eve took the wrong choice... therefore we have to life with their consequences.... and to Hyesung.... to your second reply I agree.... hm. Maybe you knew the point all along.... maybe i am just reiterating it to remind myself ^^; Sorry about anything.... like.... if you were offended... I wasn't trying to say you didn't believe God.... no no pelase don't think that >__< |
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| Yo-Tai-Keizuke | Nov 18 2003, 04:34 AM Post #11 |
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All i have to say is, could you blame Hyesung for kissing Kang Ta? I sure can't, i mean, they're so attractive and good looking, i'd kiss them too. lol (I mean no disrespect) |
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| KiMcHiLOVE | Nov 18 2003, 06:50 AM Post #12 |
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I thought about it... and i'm closing this topic. If David or another mod sees it really fit, they can reopen it.... but I can see this turning into a war or something >_< I don't blame ya, just.... tryng to stop any problems before they start :opps: Hope you understand..... If David thinks this topic should stay open.... then by all means.... he is the boss and can reopen it..... =/ |
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